[Paranoid101]

I am seventeen years old. I had sex with my boyfriend on May 25th, which was the last day of my period. We used a condom and he only put it in a few times and pulled out so it didn't last long at all. I was so paranoid thinking that I was pregnant. I took four pregnancy tests a few days before my next period was supposed to start. They were all negative. I started my period on time and I was relieved. It was quite short though. On the last day of my period I was scheduled to get plastic surgery on my breasts. I was still worried I was pregnant and that I wouldn't be able to get the surgery because they took my blood and urine but Im not sure if they took a pregnancy test though. So I thought if I am able to have the surgery, it must mean Im not pregnant. I had the surgery and it took a few weeks to recover. I then started to take adderall XR for my ADHD and it didn't make me feel that well and was never hungry. I started losing a couple pounds and when I did eat, it was healthy. I started to work out more. I was still scared and paranoid that I was pregnant at this time. When the time of my period came around it lasted for the normal five days but was light and dark brown blood. I was worried that I was spotting but I didn't think spotting lasted for five days. So about a week after that, I was still taking adderall everyday and not eating a lot at all. I had some nights without sleep and would wake up the next morning feeling dizzy and kind of sick with a headache. I had clear stringy discharge for a few days and then kind of a light brown with an unpleasant odor. My stomach has been feeling very odd. I always feel bloated and my stomach sometimes makes noises. Also, most of the time I can feel and see a pulsating motion in my stomach. It worries me. I don't know if these are all side effects of adderall and from not eating much. Im worried because some of these symptoms relate to pregnancy. I have taken a few pregnancy tests recently and they are all still negative. My boyfriend fingered me the other day and these booger like things that were dark red came out, and when I urinated this stringy stuff came out. This might just all be in my head but I am too young to have a baby! I only have had sex once and it was for five seconds! Help me and sorry this was so long!

[J_9]

They did indeed do a pregnancy test. Surgery requires a pregnancy test for woman of child bearing years. You would not have had the surgery had you been pregnant.

[teacherjenn4]

Considering how worried and paranoid you are about becoming pregnant and that you feel too young to have a baby, why are you having sex?

[J_9]

Considering how worried and paranoid you are about becoming pregnant and that you feel too young to have a baby, why are you having sex?

ThANK YOU!!

[Paranoid101]

You learn from your mistakes. And It took me one quick and protected time to learn mine. I learned that I can wait and that I do not need to please a guy this way and just to be myself. Most girls my age are having unprotected sex everyday...

[J_9]

girls my age are having unprotected sex everyday...

And I deliver their babies 9 months later.

[Paranoid101]

Ive learned from my mistake, just like everybody else has at some point in their life.

[J_9]

Ive learned from my mistake, just like everybody else has at some point in their life.

That's very good to hear. Not all girls realize this.

[teacherjenn4]

Ive learned from my mistake, just like everybody else has at some point in their life.

Excellent! Glad you learned a lesson. Sometimes life is hard, but we all learn from our mistakes.