[rubab55]

Hello I'm a girl of 25years old... im going through hell of tension and I want a solution that's y I'm writing..
I had sex for the first time 4,5 years ago with my boyfriend I did nt bleed that time and now I'm getting married and my husband wants that I bleed on the wedding night I'm in a hell of tension what to do.. please tell me is there any way I can bleed on ma wedding night.. if there is any medicin which I eat can I bleed... please help me out I know him he will divorce me if I don't bleed

[Alty]

Many women don't bleed even if they're virgins. Some women lose their hymen by riding bikes, horse back riding, etc. etc. Some women are born without a hymen. Even if the hymen is intact, doesn't mean the girl will bleed, you didn't.

The idiotic mentality that a woman that doesn't bleed isn't a virgin, is a bunch of bull that uneducated men still believe. I'm guessing you're in a country that values virginity, but doesn't have sex education.

My question to you is why you're being dishonest with the man you're going to marry. You're not a virgin. Why haven't you told him that?

Bottom line, there's no way to make yourself bleed on your wedding night. Even if you were a virgin it wouldn't be a guarantee. But you're not a virgin, so it's not going to happen.

If you're worried about him divorcing you because of this, tell him the truth. He deserves to know who and what he's marrying.