[Cisco22]

My ex broke up with me 7 days and is still asking about money that we were suspose to receive from a stock that she put into. She is also asking for the rent I promised before we broke up. I'm ignoring her now. My question is how can I use this to my advantage and get her back and turn the tables? When we broke up I was te needy asking for her back now she is asking me for this how can I turn the tables around get her back and have power?

[joypulv]

I have no sympathy for what you are asking. I will be curious to see if anyone here is going to try to come up with some advice for you (other than pay her what you owe her). Considering that money may be a lot of the reason she broke up with you, I don't see any hope. Considering your wish for 'power' in a relationship, I don't even see how she would want you back.

[Cisco22]

She broke up with me due to Losing trust in me and stupid mistakes I was making? I want to make things right and fix it she is offering friendship but my question is how can I flip this whole situation with her asking me for money I owe her? And get her back my errors caused her to leave

[Cisco22]

I think I have u kind of confused. She broke up with me due to mistakes and made and she lost trust. I'm trying to figure how I can fix this and earn it back but n

[Cisco22]

I think I have u kind of confused. She broke up with me due to mistakes and made and she lost trust. I'm trying to figure how I can fix this and earn it back but nOw were I'm lost is she is asking me for money that I told her I would help her with before the break up what can I say or do to fix my mistakes with her and fix things

[Fr_Chuck]

For heavens sake, no wonder she left you, you pay her right now, you prove to her that you pay your debts and are honest, it may impress her.

Your planning and trying to use this is sad, just plain said, If I did not know better I would have thought a 12 year old was trying to make someone like them.

[Cisco22]

The only debt that I really owe is a speeding ticket that I will take care of ASAP and pay for that and some monthly payments.like u said it might impress but paying for rent when I only stayed for 4 weeks I don't know about that trust me if U new the things I bought her and how I spoiled her then u be saying anything

[Cisco22]

So my broke up with me 7 days ago and is texting me to be friends and pay the money I owe. I have a question how can I fix things get her back I have some things I got to pay my speeding ticket and a monthly bill I want to what I can do to get her back right now I'm on a no contact rule but I will go and drop off the money for the ticket. How when I start talking to her again what can I do spark and fix things.. Ignore all the post I put up

[joypulv]

YOU GOT A SPEEDING TICKET IN HER CAR?
Do you have any idea how much that is going to cost her over the next 10 years of car insurance?
Do you realize that rent is due in advance?
Do you really think that 'spoiling' her pays the bills?
Do you have even one clue about anything? 'Mistakes' 'lost trust' 'owe money' = hopeless. Never mind turning the tables. Good GRIEF!
Go away for a year and grow a pair.

[JudyKayTee]

So my broke up with me 7 days ago and is texting me to be friends and pay the money I owe. I have a question how can I fix things get her back I have some things I gotta pay my speeding ticket and a monthly bill I wanna what I can do to get her back right now I'm on a no contact rule but I will go and drop off the money for the ticket. How when I start talking to her again what can I do spark and fix things.. Ignore all the post I put up

I can't find your other post so I have no idea what you said.

You can't spark and fix things if she doesn't want the same thing.

You need to go on, whatever that takes, without her.

I'd send her a money order for the money and stay away. Give her some time to decide what she wants and needs.