[miss anonymous]

Asalam walykum,

I am a sunni muslim girl and am 19 years of age and have been ill treated by my parents since the age of 3 years old, I have been in care twice and the police have been involved both times I have never pressed charges. I am always getting threatened by my parents who say they will kick me out. My parents both mum and dad have hit me with different sticks and so on my mum has kind of stopped but my father still hits me. My mother tells my dad I am good for nothing or have done something wrong and he gets worked up. I have been doctors many occasions and have been diagnosed with depression I have tried committing suicide by taking an overdose in the past. I feel like I will never go paradise for my parents hate me so much whatever I do is not good enough if I try and help I get pushed away and when I don't they complain tell everyone I am good for nothing.

I want to move out with my boyfriend who says he will look after me and will get married to me but I am afraid of getting punished. He is a good muslim sunni as well he has performed umrah and hajj. He does not like the way I get treated at home. I am not sure on what to do should I move with him or stay. If I tell my parents about him they will say I have brought shame to the family and not accept they believe that he would be after my fathers money. My friends have seen what I go through and they are helpless for they have there own parents to be with. Im not sure what to do please help me.

miss anonymous

[jenniepepsi]

Where do you live?

If you and your boyfriend are not planning on living in sin (having sex) I cannot imagine Allah (swt) being angry that he wants to help.

I believe moving in with your boyfriend is the best option. So long as you BOTH stay true to Allah (swt) and not live in sin
Speak to your Imam, about possible support.