[Kitty07]

My boyfriend is going to go on vacation for a week and I was invited to go but I can't because I have summer school so I can go to a animal management class next year for collage credits but the thing is I've never been away from him that long and I've never gone one day without talking to him on the phone for 2 years so I'm going to go out of my mind and it makes me sooooo mad because I could have gone but my mom is making me take 4 years of math instead of the three required (hence summer school) but I need ideas of how to not think of him leaving and to focus on school and not worry about what he's doing and when the next time ill talk to him is! Please Help!!

[lickemlolly]

I know you care about him and all but school is more important... guys will be around a dime a dozen so don't throw away your future on something that is not guaranteed... take care of school you will see him when you get back

[turtlegirl]

While he's gone try to do something new each day -- make this your project. Drive to school/work by a different route, call a friend you don't see much of, buy lunch instead of bringing it, go into a shop you don't usually go to. This way you'll be distracted by all your new experiences and you'll have more to share with him when he returns.

[mike145k]

Nothing anyone can say will make you feel better you will always miss the people you love and that's just the way it is when we love it should not cause heart achs but it should fill you with happiness and if you believe in your boyfriends commitment to you then why worry unless you are not so sure and if that's the case which I think it is your afraid he will find some one else this is your real concern and so if he does find another girl that's not the end of the world but remember next time to make a better choice don't waste your love on a loser

[eawoodall]

You should check, I think Yahoo messenger now has an recently added feature of allowing conversation over the internet. i.e. get a microphone/headset, attach to computer, start Yahoo mess. And he do the same, and talk over the internet, as long as you both have internet.

There also are programs that allow you to talkover the internet like it is a telephone, but some of those cost money (for the software if nothing else).

Go to www.yahoo.com click on messenger.

Hope that helps.

You can also send text messages to each other, if he has a cell phone with nationwide service, and you do also. Or if he has a cell phone and you don't you can send him email that goes to his text messages, and if he has internet access on his phone he can email you back or just check his email. Or some phones have chat mode instead of just text messages, so you may chat just like Yahoo messenger over the phone, without making a call. The last function on most phones to not work is the text messages, even when it is so busy you cannot get a line to make a call, often you can text message just fine, a technique used during recent disasters by responders.

The go phone, for example is a prepaid phone with no credit check, and has nationwide long distance for the same as a local call (25 cents a minute on a certain plan, other prices on other plans). Maybe you want to get a family plan so you can have both phones for a discount, and some plans let you call for free to other phones on your plan, with unlimited minutes.
http://www.cingular.com/gophone
This is not an advertisement for go phone merely an observation that you should consider all your options about staying in touch.

[Kitty07]

:cool: Ok I found a solution, since he couldn't call me because it was long distance he is going to give me his cell phone so that way he can call me from his moms cell and its free because of mobile 2 mobile so now I will be able to at least talk to him once or twice while he's gone for the week~~~> YAY :D