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kyle05 · Mar 11, 2007, 08:46 PM

Hi I am a newbie here, just came across your site while browsing. Id like to know if US immigration can assist me in anyway regarding my filipino immigrant husband who's only using me to reduce his tax exemption and once he get some tax refund he will eventually forget about his obligations to us. What government agencies should I go to and ask help.

Thanks

kyle05 · Mar 11, 2007, 08:58 PM

I am a filipino married to a filipino green card holder in the US. My husband's not supporting us and our 5years son who is in preparatory school. Since we are a part from 2 countries , what government agency should I ask for help? I am very willing to submit whatever legal documents to prove that we are his legal family.

Enlighten for I do not exactly know whom should I go to and ask for. Thanks

kyle05 · Mar 11, 2007, 09:09 PM

Hi I am a born filipino married to a filipino immigrant in the US. After 6 years of long wait and being away from each other because of false hopes and promises and even several failures in giving support to me and our son. I fall out of love if divorce is not acknowledge in our country thus he can divorce me their in the US right?

What do I have to do if he enjoys being alcoholic, and being with hoars? Enlighten thanks

JoeCanada76 · Mar 12, 2007, 12:11 AM

Well in most religions if anybody has proof that the other person has been unfaithful and is being with other people sexually is a grounds for divorce. Are you saying that you are living in the us right now? Or are you still in filipino country?

I normally say that counseling is important, but if I understand you correctly your husband cheats on you?? What do you mean about being with hoars?

If it means that he has cheated with somebody else, slept with somebody else then you have every right to file for divorce.

Unless you want to try to work it out if you do then you and him need counseling.

Where did you both get married? That will make a difference.

Joe

kyle05 · Mar 12, 2007, 01:43 AM

I sent PM to you. Read . Thank you

talaniman · Mar 12, 2007, 05:41 AM

Originally Posted by kyle05

Hi I am a born filipino married to a filipino immigrant in the US. After 6 years of long wait and being away from each other becuase of false hopes and promises and even several failures in giving support to me and our son. I fall out of love if divorce is not acknowledge in our country thus he can divorce me their in the US right?

What do i have to do if he enjoys being alcoholic, and being with hoars? enlighten thanks

Time to get a life and leave this drunk loser.

kyle05 · Mar 12, 2007, 05:28 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Time to get a life and leave this drunk loser.

Thank you so much for your reply. I tried several times but he keeps coming back and keeps coming home to our country. But once he's with me, he enjoys being with friends and spend time in bars and hoars.

Annulment is costly here in the Phils. I don't earn that much and I even lost the opportunity to go abroad and work in the US because we (my son and I) was supposed to be petitioned as promised.

It was so disappointing to know that he has anti-social personality disorder.

Though I love him so much that I will stand by him till the day we both grow old, still he cannot change for himself.

Thank you so much...

Kyle05

kyle05 · Mar 13, 2007, 12:38 AM

I know there are adult people here I just want to know or ask what do you think about my husband that he enjoys having sex with youngr prostitutes? I am 31 now and he's 39yo. We have a five year old child. We both live separately I am here with my son in the philippines while he;s in the USA as an immigrant.

He thinks as if we are his trophy and its hard for me to accept it simply because I've been faithful to him all these years. He was even got infected by G... or Clamy... and I was infected too but he never said sorry.

I want to end the relationship buit he's giving he a hard time giving the financial support that our child deserve. I don't even know which US government agency to go and complain.

Enlighten me.

RickJ · Mar 13, 2007, 02:36 AM

Kyle, I've merged your posts into this thread. Keeping all the info together may help.

kyle05 · Mar 13, 2007, 02:40 AM

I appreciate it so much. Thank you again.

JoeCanada76 · Mar 13, 2007, 02:56 AM

Any married men that are seeking sexual relations with other women are dogs and do not deserve the time or day. If it was here in the us, canada. Or other countries that is a reason for annulement or divorce. Just think as well of when he does come home, what kind of diseases or illnesses is he bringing to you or your son. I would seriesly think of not having any relations with him. He does not deserve anything from you.

kyle05 · Mar 13, 2007, 03:07 AM

Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

Any married men that are seeking sexual relations with other women are dogs and do not deserve the time or day. If it was here in the us, canada. Or other countries that is a reason for annulement or divorce. Just think as well of when he does come home, what kind of diseases or illnesses is he bringing to you or your son. I would seriesly think of not having any relations with him. He does not deserve anything from you.

Yes. The last time he went home to our country was last May2006 and he did not even told me that he was coming home. I found out through our immigration and unluckily he had contracted STD. but despite of it I still manage to take care and love him as if nothing ever happened.

Thanks

JoeCanada76 · Mar 13, 2007, 03:12 AM

No taking care of him. You know he has a STD. There is no love from him, so how can you love him? Stay away from him. Your husband is not truly your husband because if he was he would not be a dog.

Joe