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    Jul 28, 2012, 06:09 AM
    My wife kissed another man
    What should I do, my wife kissed another married man in front of me and I confronted her about it and she thinks it's no big deal and doesn't she why I had a problem with it
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    Jul 28, 2012, 06:19 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Rvelderman View Post
    What should I do, my wife kissed another married man in front of me and I confronted her about it and she thinks it's no big deal and doesn't she why I had a problem with it

    I kiss people hello and good-bye all the time.

    Your situation depends on the exact circumstances.
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    Jul 28, 2012, 06:20 AM
    At least she did it in front of you and not behind your back, right? Could be worse, for sure!

    I do know that if you make too big a deal of it your wife won't do it in front of you again, for sure, but that can lead to her hiding these things and before you know it hiding other things, too, maybe?

    I wouldn't sweat it too much as long as she comes home and smothers you with love, respect, friendship and plenty of passionate sex between all! :)

    That's my thoughts. Have a good day!

    Mark
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    Jul 28, 2012, 06:31 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by massplumber2008 View Post
    At least she did it in front of you and not behind your back, right? Could be worse, for sure!!

    I do know that if you make too big a deal of it your wife won't do it in front of you again, for sure, but that can lead to her hiding these things and before you know it hiding other things, too, maybe?

    I wouldn't sweat it too much as long as she comes home and smothers you with love, respect, friendship and plenty of passionate sex inbetween all!! :)

    That's my thoughts. Have a good day! Mark

    Thought I'd throw this in - I'm an investigator. I do matrimonial/relationship surveillances.

    I have found that 99% of the time the affair is for the attention, not for the sex.
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    Jul 28, 2012, 06:32 AM
    The question of the day is... Who is the other man? Is it a friend, relative, co-worker?

    Was it a passionate kiss or a peck on the cheek?

    We NEED details!

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