[usay2me]

My son is 40was 7yrs. Ago dealer always been dependent on my mother she did while he pulled 7yrs . She helped him get a disability check before incarnation... he is out I live with daughter and granddaughter, he was homeless,they kicked humour nothing is never his fault he sleep in street ,hotel, but he's clean have OCD,he's hetevand he won't offer at dime and my daughter won't ask she thinks common sense should tell him to offer but the alcohol ,beer controls his thoughts,she. We are Christians trying to do the Christian thing he don't see himself as an alcoholic. I understand I was a former alcoholic and drug addict,he don't do drugs he's on parole he takes urine he dose the program, NA meeting have counselors... its hurting me so and causing stress in ourvhome and in my and daughters relationship... she wants him gone,.

[JudyKayTee]

My son is 40was 7yrs. Ago dealer always been dependent on my mother she did while he pulled 7yrs . She helped him get a disability check before incarnation...he is out I live with daughter and granddaughter, he was homeless,they kicked humour nothing is never his fault he sleep in street ,hotel, but he's clean have OCD,he's hetevand he won't offer at dime and my daughter won't ask she thinks common sense should tell him to offer but the alcohol ,beer controls his thoughts,she. We are Christians trying to do the Christian thing he don't see himself as an alcoholic. I understand I was a former alcoholic and drug addict,he don't do drugs he's on parole he takes urine he dose the program, NA meeting have counselors ...its hurting me so and causing stress in ourvhome and in my and daughters relationship...she wants him gone,...

Okay, what's your question?

[usay2me]

Okay, what's your question?

Had a lot of typo's I see ,he said she (daughter)given him letter to be out by Aug.4th he took it to counselor help him into transitional ctr. They're going to try to help,I am always in the middle,I try Keep peace we are family ,it is damaging to my spirit (robbing me) I'm 55 raised my kids I need to be doing life.Now he can't get things rolling he will as always he can't converse with her he comes looking to me. I want to help but not enable,he gets a check... How to deal with these 2 one stubborn other needy and drinking trying to fill void... and granddaughter watching (17) family life it gets messy ,I need peace in this mess I'm home daughter work or avoid coming home so I'm here don't answer cell he make me the correspondent... I don't want to be the bad mom I failed in my drinking and druggin days...

[J_9]

Can you please start over from the beginning. This is very hard to understand.