How do I get him to ask me?

Nuarla · Jul 20, 2012, 02:25 AM

There is a guy in my dance class and ITD class at school. I always dance with him and we do projects together. He told my friend he wants to go out with me and she told me (we are the bestest friends and never hide things) but he doesn't know that I know... Although he is a bit out of league... He has been recently making cute comments when I do... "attractive" (to boys) moves in dance. And I have been dropping hints that I like him.. but he won't do anything! Please help! <3

~*Nuarla*~

Homegirl 50 · Jul 20, 2012, 07:31 AM

How old are the two of you?
Ask him out or wait for him to ask you. Trying to "get" someone to do something is useless. They will either do it because they want to or they won't.

Nuarla · Jul 21, 2012, 11:22 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Ask him out or wait for him to ask you.

I don't like asking out boys. I just have my own view that it should be the boy who asks the girl.
My friend told me he wants to but I'm just a bit confused on why he doesn't... That's all. But Thanks for your answer :)

Homegirl 50 · Jul 22, 2012, 06:31 AM

Well he hasn't because he does not want to or he's too shy. Either way unless you ask him, you won't be going out with him.
Your choice.
Do you talk to him at all? Why don't you have conversations with him so that he can feel comfortable with you, especially if he is shy.

Nuarla · Jul 25, 2012, 12:30 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Why don't you have conversations with him so that he can feel comfortable with you, especially if he is shy.

Yes(: We talk to each other all of the time at school, he even hugged me today.
I will just ask him out (even though I don't like girls asking boys) and hopefully it will go well. Thank you :) <3 xx

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