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    bolenalee Posts: 11, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 20, 2012, 04:19 AM
    Guys opinion please, whose behavior was worse?
    OK. First sorry about my English ! English is not my first language so.. Please understand!

    Now I live in Canada almost for 6 months! And 2 months ago I met this guy at the b-day party. He seems nice and we exchange phone number! We met 3 times, and afterward I try to avoid him (I thought we are difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!)

    And here's a deal! He texted me " would you beg to have s*x with me and my friend?". So I said "no, and you're gross!" And then he said "haha I was just joking, my friend and I were betting on what you would say. OMG what kind of person he is?

    I'm so want to revenge him... So I took a photo of text and spread it out on Facebook sending this to his friends... And then he discovered then said I'm evil what you did was very spiteful.. blahblah But he did wrong at first isn't it?

    Need your opinion thanks
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jul 20, 2012, 06:51 AM
    My honest opinion is you both behaved like immature kids and you could have avoided all this drama by cutting contact when you lost interest in him.

    How old are you both, 12? That's how you both acted. Revenge is as bad as a bad joke, whether it was a funny joke, or an intended flirt, or proposition.

    Why didn't you just say "I am no longer interested so leave me alone."? As it stands, none of you wins this who is worse contest, you both are equally bad.
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    Jul 20, 2012, 07:43 AM
    What he did was very wrong... how dare he ask a girl to have sex... but I think you could have scolded him right away when he said you it was for a joke instead of doing tat silly thing... becoz he will not realise what he did was wrong by doing in your way... you could have scolded him in front of his friends or something like... the punishment what you gave for him was worthless...
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    Jul 21, 2012, 01:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ratchasi View Post
    what he did was very wrong....how dare he ask a girl to have sex....but i think you could have scolded him right away when he said you it was jus for a joke instead of doing tat silly thing...becoz he will not realise what he did was wrong by doing in your way...you could have scolded him in front of his friends or something like....the punishment what you gave for him was worthless.....

    I'm not sure she wasn't having sex with him and he changed the rules -

    Scolding? She's not his mother.

    You walk away from situations like this.
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    Jul 21, 2012, 01:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bolenalee View Post
    OK. First sorry about my English ! English is not my first language so.. Please understand!

    Now I live in Canada almost for 6 months! And 2 months ago I met this guy at the b-day party. He seems nice and we exchange phone number! We met 3 times, and afterward I try to avoid him (I thought we are difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!)

    And here's a deal! He texted me " would you beg to have s*x with me and my friend?". So I said "no, and you're gross!" And then he said "haha I was just joking, my friend and I were betting on what you would say. OMG what kind of person he is?

    I'm so want to revenge him...So I took a photo of text and spread it out on Facebook sending this to his friends...And then he discovered then said I'm evil what you did was very spiteful..blahblah But he did wrong at first isn't it?

    Need your opinion thanks

    I have a very creepy feeling - and in this instance my spidey senses are NOT wrong - that this has been posted before, same scenario, different name. This can't possibly happen twice.

    Same deal - poor grasp of language except for the slang and profanity; meeting people in bars and going home with them; texts asking for sex.

    Turned into a discussion of revenge and juvenile behavior.

    Yes, we've been here before.
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    Jul 21, 2012, 02:12 PM
    I agree with Judy. I also recall seeing this same question before.
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    Jul 21, 2012, 02:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    I agree with Judy. I also recall seeing this same question before.

    ALL of this is familiar - I believe the thread got heated. Someone is going to have to check IP's (I think).

    I'm so sure that I keep looking at the date posted to make sure I'm not opening old threads.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...g-685284.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...e-685208.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...me-682571.html
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