[silenthillfour]

Okey we seems to know each other at least 2 years she is older than me in 2 yirs Im 20 and she is 22 I know her because of her brother was also my friend.. we didn't talk a lot only if I visit his brother in there house but one day when I came to visit his brother and not knowingly she said to me that his brother was not there so I decide to go out and came by another time but she told me not to go unless we have a dinner both only 2 of us because she only one in there house. Then she told me that she's comfortable with me rather than the other man and she tell me that don't tell to my other friends that she is different in me and close to me... and I ask her why she only say because I'm young. And she said your like my brother.. :((( but sometimes it was so strange to me that she came into our house and visit me with my favourite fruits.. and it seems she wants to be friend with my mother. Too and one day before my birthday this July 14 she call's me and text me and she say's that she will cook for me a sagetti and she said to me that no need to cook for my birthday because she will bring me a food and she said to me that's the gift.. and after that she said to me for the first time goodnight with a word of sweetdreams I I I 0 0 I don't know if she has a feelings to me rather than of being her brother lsss hel me to distinguish that if this girl has feelings to me but she don't want me to know it. Or it was just a friend caring and loving... but I actually have feelings to her also... I don't know what to do

[ali18ninja]

Well her feelings for your are not typical of "just a friend". These feelings seem to be more of a really good friend, best friend, or maybe romantic feelings. A girl doesn't just go out of her way to do all these things and act this way for a regular friend. I'm sure she has other guy friends. You must mean something more. How much more? Well you'll never know unless you make some sort of move. Have a talk with her. Ask her if she has any feelings for you and if she replies with "just a friend/brother" then leave it at that and see what happens. I've had a best friend for 4 years who confessed her feelings after I got into a relationship with one of her friends who she introduced me to. It didn't sit well with her too well so she ended our friendship. So even after 4 years I thought it was just a best friendship type of thing. But don't get your hopes up. Girls are complicated after all.

[silenthillfour]

Well her feelings for your are not typical of "just a friend". These feelings seem to be more of a really good friend, best friend, or maybe romantic feelings. A girl doesn't just go out of her way to do all these things and act this way for a regular friend. I'm sure she has other guy friends. You must mean something more. How much more? Well you'll never know unless you make some sort of move. Have a talk with her. Ask her if she has any feelings for you and if she replies with "just a friend/brother" then leave it at that and see what happens. I've had a best friend for 4 years who confessed her feelings after I got into a relationship with one of her friends who she introduced me to. It didn't sit well with her too well so she ended our friendship. So even after 4 years I thought it was just a best friendship type of thing. But don't get your hopes up. Girls are complicated after all.

Yes she already said to me that she see me as a brother because she tell me that she's comfortable with me but I don't feel that it was just only a brother well I don't want her to be shock as an akward way to tell her if she has a feelings to me... :)) but I don't know the attittudes of the girls if they are hiding there feelings or what..

[ali18ninja]

Trust me dude, no one understands women. Even other women. Good luck with that though.