[cooki3monst3rLP]

I went out with this girl this year and she was amazing and I "loved" her and I was really stupid. I later met this other girl who was I don’t know just better because she talked to me more than my girlfriend because my girlfriend was always with her friends and didn’t answer my texts all the time. I had been going out with her for 3 years and I broke up with her this year and started going out with this other girl.

Now I broke up with her and I want my old girlfriend back... because after seeing messages that we sent to each other a while ago she loved me a lot and I asked her out and she said that she didn’t know because I didn’t show that I loved her a lot so how do I show her that I love her and she also thinks that I was flirting with her friends but I wasn’t. We’re going into high school now and I know what you're thinking you think that I shouldn’t worry because were just kids but I’ve known her since the 5th grade and she is amazing and I love her we've been through so much together... and I really want her back forever this time. I also forgot to mention like we wanted to be with each other forever and I know she wanted that but I screwed it up and now I don’t know what to do she doesn’t think that I love her and she thinks that I’m just going to break up with her again.

She broke up with me because I cheated and then lied about it and I know I have this lying problem that I really want to fix and I know cheating is a terrible thing to do but I’ll do anything to get her back she says that she knows that I’m sorry and that she knows that I will never cheat on her again but she just can’t trust me. She says that I need to prove to her that she can trust me again, and she doesn’t just want me to give her time she wants me to prove it.

So please help I love her and I really want her back. I know I will never do anything to hurt her again, and I don’t think I can move on.

[talaniman]

You have already compromised your credibility, and made her cautious of you, and rightfully so.

Keep your dignity and self respect, if you have any left, and work on you and if she misses you and changes her mind she will let you know, You have to be willing to take responsibility for your actions and know after screwing up big time you ruined everything, and move on.

Be better than a pest begging for a second chance, looking to prove something to a female that ignored you in the first place, but lying and cheating was not the solution. Nor is what you are doing now.

Sorry guy, you have to leave her alone. You haven't even solved the problem that broke you up, the way you handled her giving more attention to friends and not you. A second chance may not change that will it?