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    Karmalarma Posts: 14, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 11, 2007, 08:02 PM
    I don't know what to think
    Ok a long story short. I met this man at work, I didn't know he was married, found out after I became involved that he was married, whenever I tried to break it off with him he would cry, threaten suicide, etc. I changed my phone number at one point and then stupidly gave it to him again. He has lied numerous times, the last I heard from him he said his grandma was dying, but this is the 6th person in his family in the last 6 months that were either in the hospital or died. So that was the last I heard from him and that was three days ago, why did he beg for me not to break it off with him and then when I once again give in he blows me off when we had plans, almost every weekend he came up with one excuse or another and promises me the world , I need someone to figure this out.
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    Mar 11, 2007, 08:22 PM
    He needs to do the rejecting, its an ego thing... and you very much need to let him. Count your lucky stars you are getting away with it too. Please, let him think he's done you in permanently even if it's a lie and keep your distance from now on.
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    Mar 11, 2007, 08:42 PM
    Thank you it makes sense
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    Mar 11, 2007, 08:47 PM
    Dude is playing you big time. 1st of all I'm willing to bet that he is not sheading real tears. Secondly when you find someone that can lie so easily you are dealing with a fool. That fool has never considered killing himself for someone that he blows off. Do yourself a big favor and end it with this dude. He is using you. If you want to continue to be used that is fine, but know that you are being used, and he is using you. I'm certain about this one. To kill yourself about someone means that you would die for them. He can't make up an excuse to spend time with you on the weekend, but he is willing to kill himself before you leave him. I bet he is older than you. Leave him alone!!
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    Mar 12, 2007, 04:55 AM
    There is nothing to figure out. He will do whatever it takes to get what he wants. He knows he can wear you down and you will give in. This allows him to keep taking. We all know where he is when he isn't with you.
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    Mar 19, 2007, 06:15 AM
    Don't let let him treat you that way you deserve better try and not give in to him cause he will think he can play you around.

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