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    Jul 14, 2012, 08:20 PM
    Sort of confused, What should I do?
    Well I have a boyfriend and we've been together for almost 3 months now, but I haven't seen him in about 7 months because we live 6 hours away and niether of us have the time to visit. Another complication is that I like this guy who's in most of classes at school and I think I flirt with him... no. I know I flirt with him and it makes me feel so guilty :( my friend, who dated my boyfriend (I know, probably not good to date a guy after your friend did everything with him and I'm not ready to do that kind of thing), told me that he moves on really fast and will end up liking someone else sooner or later. Something else I found out was that everything he says to me about 'forever' (which kind of panics me to be honest) or all the pet names he gives me are exactly the same as what he said to my friend, which hurt a little to find this out... the guy I like on the other hand, he acts kind of dumb just to talk to me and I think its cute :3 (I feel so shameful and guilty saying that but I can't help it)... So if anyone could give me some advice and their insight on what to do or what not to do, I'd really appreciate it.

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    Jul 14, 2012, 08:32 PM
    You have been dating a guy for 3 months that you haven't seen in 7, why?
    Why don't you just break up with him. It's obviously not working, you have not seen each other longer than you have been dating.
    Then you are free to get to know the other guy.
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    Jul 14, 2012, 09:28 PM
    I'm dating him because I did like him, still do in fact, its just I think I like the other guy more :/
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    Jul 14, 2012, 09:33 PM
    From your "friends" perspective... I would be done with this guy before he breaks your heart. But then again she could be jealous, but from what I see... its not working out all that well anyway. End it and see about this new guy
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    Jul 15, 2012, 09:45 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by BridgeOfLight97 View Post
    I'm dating him cos I did like him, still do in fact, its just i think i like the other guy more :/
    Well break up with the guy and see how things go with the other guy. But I would not date him though. Just see how things work for the two of you. You can go out and get to know a person without calling them a boyfriend. Why tie yourself down.
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    Jul 16, 2012, 12:12 AM
    If I did break up with him, which I'm leaning towards it but not too far, how would I do it? I've broken up with a guy before and at first we got along but now that he's got another girlfriend, he's been talking to me like cr*p and calling me things :/ I don't want that to happen to me again
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    Jul 16, 2012, 07:00 AM
    You tell him you too don't see each other enough to have a relationship and you're too far apart.Tell him you think you should just break up and be friends
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    Jul 16, 2012, 07:11 AM
    Yeah, I'm starting to think, well even more, that it might be the best thing to do
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