[J_9]

If he's grappling with you AND he kissed you, he's a serious pervert. He most definitely has other things on his mind.

[ScottGem]

I would report the gym. A gym, even a boxing training facility, that would allow a 13 yr old (whether male of female, but especially female) to "grapple" with adult males, needs to be closed up.

But for him to kiss you goes way over the top. You seriously need to talk to your parents about this today.

[ScottGem]

Im 13 and i think that age doesnt matter, ... Just be friends with him until you it 18,

While you generally gave good advice here, I wanted to point out these two comments. The only people that say age doesn't matter, are people trying to justify a relationship that is wrong. Age very much matters. It matters less and less as people get older. To the point that when BOTH are mature adults, then it matters extremely little. But when you are dealing with children or young adults, especially when one is an adult and the other a child, then it matters a great deal.

Did you read that this pervert kissed the OP? And she should still be friends? She needs to get away from him now.

[Homegirl 50]

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i dont think its ok for you to date him. Just be friends with him until you it 18,.

This creep has already kissed her. Friend zone is out the door. She should stay away from him and he should be in jail. Her parents need to be told about this.