[kaykaykaylyn]

So Ive know this guy for 6 months.
Hes known me from my ex boy friend from 6th grade
(btw he's 17 and I'm 18 and were both graduated)
And I knew him from a rumor that said me and him were dating (which wasn't true because I didn't know him) anyway it felt like we both liked each other from our first glance and as time went by we got closer. He would say I'm a real good friend of him. Eventually we would start to tell each other our problems and who we liked and if one of us didn't agree with it we would tell each other why. He's a real friendly guy as in females LOVE him for his to die for personality. Hes never mean to the ladies even if he isn't interested. Ive known for the longest that he's liked me I could feel it and tell every time we were around each other. He would always try to stop other dudes from flirting or messing with me. And before hand he used to joke on me and point out all my flaws. Now he doesn't even do that. Its like he tells me I'm beautiful and don't need any make up. He would used the excuse of "you used to date my friend" but that was in the 6th grade. And he just meet his him months ago like I did. Anyway last week we were hanging out and we started making out and he asked me "are you sure you want to do this?" I responded yes.. but do you think this will change us as in a bad way like never talking again he said it wouldn't... we had sex and we've been talking on and off like normal. Nothings changed. I kind of think he wants sex again and he wants to be with me.. what do you guys think ? Let me know please!
By the way eveyone can tell we both like each other people always say why don't y'all date or do y'all date

[Wholockihead280]

Oh my gosh, I'm in such a similar situation at the moment. My best guy friend and I are both 18/19 and have known each other almost 9 months (we work together so we see each other every day). I'm sure he used to like me when we first met, but I didn't see him in that way until about 4/5 months ago and by then he was seeing someone else, but he broke it off with her about 2 months ago as she still had feelings for her ex. We also used to tell each other our problems and who we liked etc and when I got messed about by this other guy, he was so supportive and kept telling me to delete his number/not to contact him anymore which really helped me to get over him. Shortly after he broke up with his girlfriend we went out for a meal and he told me he knew that I liked him and that he wants to take things slow/we just need to go out and see what happens... So a couple of weeks ago we went to a club and we ended up going back to his and doing everything but :/ The next day we were perfectly fine and we've been talking pretty much like normal, but like with you, nothings changed with us. He has said that he's worried/cautious about people finding out at work as he doesn't want people talking about him and I know he really liked his ex so I understand that he might not want another relationship yet, but I can't help but thinking "Surely he might want to see me/do something with me outside of work?" Or is he just not interested? I think this might be similar in your case, maybe he's not ready for a relationship yet but likes you and wants to show his affections etc... But then if he likes you, why isn't anything different?