[Fun Girl]

This girl in my college was showing interest in me, she made an effort for example I was just standing minding my business and I see her walking towards me and standing next to me like if she wanted to talk to me to not make it awkward I acted like if I said "hey" she looked at the floor instantly and said hello back she was nervous, it happened another time as well but this time I acted busy on my cell phone I never said anything to her because I didn't know what to say and was a little nervous too but now I am not I wish I could go back in time, anyway another time she bumped my elbow on purpose when I wasn't paying attention, I just said a lame line like "sorry, i didn't know you were there", she is also she is very social around others , I never got a chance to meet her, she was leaving class fast. Anyway schools over and I tried to contact her through Facebook I sent her a message saying "I never got a chance to meet you, kept racin me outta class" never replied a week later I sent another but this time I was being playfully I said "ooo ouch I'd thought you were a lad :[" she ignored it too and its been 2 weeks, her friend gave me her number at a party, should I call her, I'd be kind of creepy so what can I say?

[Homegirl 50]

Don't be creepy, just call, but if you get little or no response it could mean she is not interested in you. She hasn't answered any of your messages.

[Fun Girl]

How can I call without being creepy ? I was thinking about calling her and starting with a little bit of humor maybe? She is shy and I know she's interested I just haven't dealt with shy girls before that's why I'm persistent

[LinaFeng]

I think maybe she is not interested in you. So it's no need to have a call.

[Homegirl 50]

If she was interested she would have answered your face book messages, and she didn't.
If she is shy your calling and trying to be humorous is creepy, and don't be persistent, to a shy person, that is creepy too.

[Fun Girl]

Remember she is shy, I forgot to mention I was exiting class and she was there and as I was passing by and we locked eye contact for a couple seconds maybe 4-5 maybe she is still interested just shy I don't know, I want to call, you said humor could be creepy maybe I could just be direct?

[Homegirl 50]

If she is shy, just call and say hello ask if she would like to go out sometime. She'll say yes or no.
Being persistent can be creepy especially if the person has not responded to you previously.

[Fun Girl]

I will risk calling... should I just be direct? Like introduce myself and then say I was feeling some energy and I had to find out what the deal was something like that, maybe just be direct or get to know her first jeez this is hard..

Thanks for the replies

G