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    defoftalent05 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 7, 2012, 02:46 PM
    Need some advice.
    I have been dating this girl on and off for a year. When I first met her she told that me I was the definition of a real man. I am the one that she prayed and asked God for, but she keeps leaving me because she thinks that I'm too good to be true, and she doesn't deserve me. And that she doesn't know if she wants to be with me or her ex boyfriend.

    I stuck with her through everything that she put me through, even when I was really hurt. I do everything for this girl, and she still seems to treat me bad sometimes. I know that she has the potential to be the one for me, but she is really childish and does not see things until they are too late. She never does anything for me. All she does is eat, sleep, and complain about things that are not important. She has the worst attitude, and tries to blame everything on everybody else, and flips every argument on me even if she is the one that starts it. She says that she is indecisive, and doesn't want to be with just one guy, and that she does not want to change. But she says she loves me and does not know what she will do without me.

    She keeps talking to her ex boyfriend, and she says that she is in love with him, after he beat her, cheated on her, and treated her like **** she still in love with him. Yesterday she broke up with me because she was talking a lot of trash about me in front of her family, and I asked her why she was talking trash about me and she says "I don't know" and after that she broke up with me because she says I am fake for confronting her.

    I really miss her, and want to know if I should continue to try to talk to her and make it work? I'm a good guy, and I really think if she gets her mind right, that she will be a perfect girl, but she is so childish and ignorant.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jul 7, 2012, 03:17 PM
    Sorry guy, you don't need advice.You already know she will never be perfect for you,and never live up to the potential you see in her. NEVER!!

    Get away from her and stay away and let her EX have her. YOU deserve better, to be treated better. She doesn't appreciate what you offer, so dump her, and have some dignity,and self respect about yourself.

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