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dao13 · Jul 7, 2012, 08:20 AM

I'm 13 yrs. Old, and I have no phone, no Facebook, and no contact with my girlfriend. I love her and can't tell her. I miss her and can' tell her how much. I don't think my mom likes it too much, but I honestly don't care what she thinks. What do I do?

odinn7 · Jul 7, 2012, 10:24 AM

Wait until you are old enough to:

A) Have a girlfriend
B) Get a phone
C) Get Facebook
D) Date without parents permission
E) All of the above

Fr_Chuck · Jul 7, 2012, 10:30 AM

You obey your parents

Most 13 year old don't have phones
Many 13 year old don't have face books
And you see them when school starts if they go to your same school

Alty · Jul 7, 2012, 02:13 PM

You're a child. What your parents say goes. You live under their roof, they don't have to give you luxuries, they only have to feed you, clothe you, educate you, and make sure you're physically taken care of. Everything else is a bonus.

I think your parents are on the right track. Why should you have a phone, and Facebook? Are you going to pay for the phone? Did you buy the computer?

Are they aware that you're dating? Have they given permission for you to date?

Bottom line, you're a child, and as a child, you do what mommy and daddy say. When you're 18, no longer living in their home, you can do what you want.

JudyKayTee · Jul 7, 2012, 05:27 PM

Your parents know you better than we do - I'm sure they have their reasons.

EDIT: Got to love his answer on another thread: "And i thought i had patience. If my mom was that controlling, i would probably tell her straight. Mom i love this girl, leave us alone.And if that doesn't work and she is still controlling, you're probably just screwed. Sorry"

Wonder when he's going to tell his mother "straight."

Laughing.

dao13 · Jul 21, 2012, 06:11 AM

I wish my mom won't let me have one am I supposed to go buy one and hide it from her? And a Facebook, I'm just confused on how to keep that from my mom, when she reads my freakin' emails

dao13 · Jul 21, 2012, 06:12 AM

Are you kidding? Every 10 year old I know has a phone and a Facebook, my cousin is freaking 7 and has had a Facebook for a while.

dao13 · Jul 21, 2012, 06:14 AM

My mom doesn't do any of that and I honestly couldn't care less what she thinks, she is of no authority of my love life!

J_9 · Jul 21, 2012, 06:14 AM

Originally Posted by dao13

I wish my mom won't let me have one am i supposed to go buy one and hide it from her? and a facebook, i'm just confused on how to keep that from my mom, when she reads my freakin' emails

At 13 she SHOULD be reading your emails!

dao13 · Jul 21, 2012, 06:17 AM

Thanks but I don't care for my moms reasons and I don't think she really knows anything about this .

J_9 · Jul 21, 2012, 06:22 AM

Us mom's know a lot more than you give us credit for. Remember that we were once 13 too. ;)

JudyKayTee · Jul 21, 2012, 06:25 AM

Originally Posted by dao13

My mom doesn't do any of that and i honestly couldn't care less what she thinks, she is of no authority of my love life!

What love life? I'm not reading that you have a love life - ?

I've already posted this once but why don't you follow your own advice which is: "And i thought i had patience. If my mom was that controlling, i would probably tell her straight. Mom i love this girl, leave us alone.And if that doesn't work and she is still controlling, you're probably just screwed. Sorry" https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ip-675222.html

So tell her straight to leave you alone and give back your cell phone or whatever else you're whining about.

Or, as you put it, you could move to freakin' Saudi Arabia. "I have the exact same situation, what i can tell you is don't listen to these parent pleasers. They clearly want you to suffer, unless you're in freakin' Saudi Arabia or something you don't need your parents permission to be in love. And there is nothing illegal about it." https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ml#post3184783

So - so do what you told other people to do.

odinn7 · Jul 21, 2012, 07:00 AM

Originally Posted by dao13

My mom doesn't do any of that and i honestly couldn't care less what she thinks, she is of no authority of my love life!

You sound incredibly immature even for a 13 year old.

Guess what? If you're living at her house, she's an authority on anything and everything that has to do with you and your life... never mind that you're a minor... oh, and did I say it? Immature.

ednaidaly · Jul 24, 2012, 06:45 PM

13 and in love? __. How long have you guys dated for a week? Smh to kids nowadays.. You're 13 you listen to your parents whether you like it or not, as long as you live under their roof you listen to them.