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    Jul 6, 2012, 10:55 PM
    LGBTQ Advice...
    I'm currently dating and in love with my boyfriend of a decent time; however I find myself attracted to 99.9% women vs. men. Ive had gfs & bfs, but unfortunately more serious w/ males. I can only watch/get off to lesbian porn. Straight stuff makes me uncomfortable. I've always claimed myself as bisexual w/ a preference for women, but always questioned am I truly lesbian at heart?
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    Jul 7, 2012, 01:56 AM
    Ive had gfs & bfs, but unfortunately more serious w/ males.
    To me this says it all.

    Why is it unfortunate that you've been more serious with males? That statement is very telling.

    I can only watch/get off to lesbian porn. Straight stuff makes me uncomfortable.
    This is another part of your post that says it all.

    I don't think you're bi. I also don't think you're as into your boyfriend as you claim to be.

    I've never once said "it's unfortunate that I'm with my husband", because I love him, and want to be with him.

    Time to do some serious soul searching. Based on what you posted, you're a lesbian, you're not bi.

    Good luck.

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