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    phattygyrlbk Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 3, 2012, 05:40 AM
    I've been with him 13 yrs, four kids, and now I'm his mistress.
    We were together 13 yrs four kids he cheated had a baby and then married someone else. I been sleeping with him all my life and he has been in my life. Whatever I go through he is the only one always there. I still love him but not in love with him because of the disrespect. I talk to him, tell him how I feel like a ho. I became a person that dislike his wife, and he also sleeps with people I called my friends. I now don't speak to them. And they say we are not together. That's why I'm mad.
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    Jake2008 Posts: 6,721, Reputation: 3460
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    Jul 4, 2012, 04:27 AM
    13 years and 4 kids later, and he married someone else?

    My advice to you is to see a lawyer, establish child support, and have nothing but court ordered communication with him, for the sake of the children.

    You are wasting your life away waiting for a married man, to come back to you. Not to mention he's cheating on his wife with other women besides you.

    I am baffled as to why you would put up with this?
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jul 4, 2012, 07:15 AM
    You're not a ho, just baby mama, with a lot of drama. The others are ho's. Go to court, and get your child support, and get a life without him. He is a baby daddy, and a married lying cheater.

    Stay away from the ho's, and his wife, and him, except when it comes to the kids business.

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