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funchart14 · Jul 2, 2012, 07:03 AM

So back in march, I got kicked off why club soccer team because I was being too hard on myself as well as the other girls and I was expecting too much. So after I left, the team sort of fell apart. Other girls quit, coaching isn't very good, all of the girls are fighting and the team is not good. So parents and kids keep talking about me that I am going to come back and try out. Well what they don't know is that I got asked to play on a different team and that's where I am going to play. Tsome of the parents found out and they are trying to get me back but I'm not going and they know that. They compliment me and everything but I'm not going back. I seriously love the attention. Is that bad or good? I hate this team so much but I love that everyone wants me back. I'm not going back but the attention just makes me so happy. Is that cocky and rude? Should I try and stop them or should I just keep taking the compliments?

Homegirl 50 · Jul 2, 2012, 07:31 AM

The attention is nice. It feels good to know you were appreciated. Just don't let it go to your head. Concentrate on being a good member of the new team

joypulv · Jul 2, 2012, 07:45 AM

Just remember that life changes. Who's on top one minute is at the bottom of the heap the next, whether it's because of injury or a scandal or who knows what. The boss becomes the employee, the king the pauper, the race horse the dog food. Just sayin'... beware. You are basking in the glow of retribution, but don't bask much longer.

JudyKayTee · Jul 2, 2012, 02:57 PM

I'd develop a reputation for honesty now - I'd tell them that you are going to play for another team but thank you for the compliment.

sgree175 · Jul 2, 2012, 03:31 PM

Hi I've answered some of your other questions.Look it seems that these people really need your skill and talent but this is no reason to go somewhere your not happy.

For example I said this when I was 5:my mum said that happiness is the key to life.one day at school the teacher asked us what we wanted to be when we got older.I wrote 'happy'.the teacher said I didn't get the exercise and I said she didn't get life.

U see that if your not happy with that team then transpher to another there's nothing they can do

Homegirl 50 · Jul 2, 2012, 03:41 PM

Originally Posted by sgree175

hi i've answered some of your other questions.Look it seems that these people really need your skill and talent but this is no reason to go somewhere your not happy.

For example i said this when i was 5:my mum said that happiness is the key to life.one day at school the teacher asked us what we wanted to be when we got older.i wrote 'happy'.the teacher said i didn't get the exercise and i said she didn't get life.

u see that if your not happy with that team then transpher to another there's nothing they can do

She got kicked off that team. She did not voluntarily leave

JudyKayTee · Jul 2, 2012, 04:22 PM

Originally Posted by sgree175

hi i've answered some of your other questions.Look it seems that these people really need your skill and talent but this is no reason to go somewhere your not happy.

For example i said this when i was 5:my mum said that happiness is the key to life.one day at school the teacher asked us what we wanted to be when we got older.i wrote 'happy'.the teacher said i didn't get the exercise and i said she didn't get life.

u see that if your not happy with that team then transpher to another there's nothing they can do

She didn't transfer - she was told/asked to leave.

That's what you said to a teacher when you were 5? Amazing.