[johnno]

My girlfriend told me she wanted a break about 2 weeks ago. A week later I told her it was over cause I didn't want to hang around. She said OK I guess so. Now tonight she hears that we are going out to the same club and she s herself that she will see me. She told my mate this so I rang her up and she said that she couldn't handle seeing me with another girl. She said that we could get back in a month or a year, and I said no that won't happen, and she got upset saying it might happen, you never been with someone for as long as me so it mite happen. I don't get it. Yesterday she msgd me wanting to catch up, I said no I'm busy, tonight she can't bear to see meo ut cause I mite be with another girl. What is the go? Can someone explain what I should do please?

[cazzy1]

Well
(1) The reason she wanted to meet up was prob to talk about what you had been up to vicer vercer.
(2) I would feel the same seeing my ex with another girl.
(3) She wanted a brake not a split come on you should know a bit about girls
I would meet up with her and find out why she wanted a breake.

[lickemlolly]

Yeah don't just blow her off.. you never know what is going on in her life... if she said she wants to break up that's one thing but if she just needs space or time and you care about this person then blowing her off is not a good idea... true you're doing the right thing because your not letting your world revolve around her but be smart not cruel...

[mike145k]

I believe you deserve to be happy if you are not walking around happy and full of love for her and she you then I would say hold off on anything serious