[meeshelle]

So, he's 17 and I'm 19. We met a year and approx 5 months ago, and decided to be an official couple by the end of January (we started dating since august). Even if he was moving out of the state, we stayed as a couple since we could meet at least once a year, and in two years we could be together again, so it didn't seem that bad. To feel we were together were most of the day playing videogames on the computer and on a console, and we would always be talking through Skype. On the videogames he was the social one, while I was more competitive.. So he would spend his time talking to people when I was away.

Fastfoward to the beginning of June, we talking through Skype and he told me he was talking about me to his best friend. I kept asking him and he did't want to tell me what it was, and I told him that when he left I was going to log in to his account and he had no problem with it. Sooo, maybe I read more than what I planned on. He was talking to this 23 year old (he met her two years before me, but he stopped talking to her about 3 months ago) and even thought he recognized he had no chance with her, he lusted her. I felt sad but in the end I ended up finding it pathetic, since even thought she would send him provocative photos from time to time (yes, end of rant).

I decided to read one more, and ended up feeling devastated. He met a girl on a we played together game, and it was like they were sexting each other through Facebook. I mean, she was telling him she was going to touch it while she showered (tmi) and she also sent him pictures of her in a bikini. The last thing they talked about was an "i miss you.." from him and she just answered with "k" and they haven't talked again after approximately two months. When I confronted him about it, he told me that she started hitting on him and that he didn't mean anything he said to her. He said he was just practicing with her. At one point he told her he loved her, to which she responded "you don't mean it" and he said "i know, neither do you".. But still, am I supposed to be worried about him doing the same thing again with every single girl just hits on him?

Since most of this is single sided, I'll try to defend him somewhat. I was the first girl he ever fell in love with and his first relationship, so I guess it's understandable to make a mistake. And at least he stopped talking to her two months before I found out.. He told me that he knew he was having feelings for her so he stopped talking to her for a while and when he knew he was over then he talked to her again. And he talked about me to his mother.. We were going through the comfortable stage and I thought I was falling out of love so he asked her about that. He actually went through it first but never told me, he just said everything was like a routine and then when I went told him how I was feeling he thought that maybe we weren't going to last forever so he did that.. And he told his about what he did with the other girl. Even if this may sound racist, I somewhat believe he didn't mean what he said, since she was a younger than him and had a dark skin tone (he had to me before he doesn't like that skin tone).

Kind of wrong, but I took him back three days after I found out.. I still have feelings for him and I don't think about what he did most of time. Opinions? :/

[talaniman]

Is this ALL on line, and do you date in real life? Have you ver met in real life?