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    Shanghaibabes Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 28, 2012, 04:17 PM
    Horrible labia
    I have been married for six months and have only let my new husband have missionary style sex once, my lips hung out loads and were squashed up against his stomach I was so enbarassed snd since then I only let him do it doggy style, standing from behind and bent over a chair, he keeps asking to try different positions and now wants to perform oral on me, how can I put him off oral?
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    Jun 28, 2012, 04:21 PM
    Your problem can be corrected with plastic surgery, but I don't know how you can put him off oral. How do you know he won't just love your large labia? Men have a different perspective on this. As a matter of fact, the way I see it... no won't go there. Just trust me on this. Say yes and have the time of your life!
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    Jun 28, 2012, 05:29 PM
    Me? I'd be all over that... I would love it. He may too so why not give it a chance?
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    Jun 29, 2012, 08:24 AM
    I think I can speak for most men when I say that we don't care. Really. We are more often than not just happy enough to stick our pee-pee in your hoo-hoo.

    I understand that you're self-conscious of your labia, but trust me when I say that there are millions of women whose Labia look exactly the same as yours. Some are larger, some are smaller. They're like snow flakes, all a little different.

    Let your husband go down there. Might also be worth it to let him know that you're self-conscious about that.

    Plastic surgery is an option, but why? I think this falls under learn to love your body.

    Good luck.
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    Jun 29, 2012, 09:15 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    Your problem can be corrected with plastic surgery, but I dont know how you can put him off oral. How do you know he wont just love your large labia? Men have a different perspective on this. As a matter of fact, the way I see it......no wont go there. Just trust me on this. Say yes and have the time of your life !!
    I will go there... some of us guys... many of us in fact... love larger Labia on a woman. I bet he is one of them too. Like large boobs... not really needed to do the job as your mammary glands are no bigger than fried eggs... but oh they are so much fun for us to play with...

    So please consider this is purely in your own head.. I bet husband loves them the way they are.
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