[ishtah]

My wife of 7 years slept with a younger girl she knows when she went to her house . She did ask me if she should or not and I approved . The next day she was super happy and in a good mood and had great sex for a week . Now should I let this go on ? The girl asked her to sleep over again yesterday and I know she wanted to but ended up passing by her for a couple of hours . What comes next ?

[tickle]

What comes next. You join the threesome, if they will allow it. Then you three have your own swingers club.

This is not that unusual.

If they agree, then all three of you sit down and create boundaries.

[ishtah]

That part I am OK with for sure , I am just worried she migrates to the other side totally . Should she date that girl ? I don't know if she comes back with that question what would be my situation . I am happy she is happy.. I just don't want to be left out of the party/s

[Fr_Chuck]

While I totally disagree with this life style on so many moral levels, it is not that uncommon as of late.

[joypulv]

You ask, should you let this go on.. that all seems a little strange to me, getting permission, and what sort of action you would take if you decide it should not go on. She isn't chattel. I assume you mean should you leave her or not? I don't know how we could possibly answer that for you.
This question has a slight troll feel to it. Or maybe you are just bragging.

[tickle]

You ask, should you let this go on.. that all seems a little strange to me, getting permission, and what sort of action you would take if you decide it should not go on. She isn't chattel. I assume you mean should you leave her or not? I don't know how we could possibly answer that for you.
This question has a slight troll feel to it. Or maybe you are just bragging.

I think that its great that she asked 'permission', that tells me that they talk openly about a lot of sexual things, what-ifs, etc.

If it makes her happy she will go anyway, that is why I feel it should be an open relationship, and he join in, that is keeping everything on the table so to speak, or on the bed, whatever.

It could go away a lot easier if they keep it open, if hidden, then that is the wrong way and could go on forever.

[excon]

i am just worried she migrates to the other side totally .

Hello I:

People don't migrate. You're BORN with your sexual orientation.

excon