[Oldies15]

Hi well I'am not very sure how this works but here I go, My boyfriend and have wanted a baby for a very long time. We only tried once 'last year' and I did not get pregnant. We just currently got back together and tried again this week. We had sex I believe on Tuesday and we went multiple times that night he came a few times. The next morning we had sex again 2 times. Then 1 more time. Although I got my period the next day and I was devistated. It seemed like a regular period but only lasted 3-4 days and I'm still having some what pain can some please tell me there's a chance I'm pregnant! (: please.

[odinn7]

Can I ask you a question?

What are you doing trying to get pregnant with someone who you broke up with and only recently got back together with? That, to me, doesn't sound like a very stable relationship to start a family. What happens when you get pregnant and you break up again?

How old are you two?

[smearcase]

I have no expertise in this subject. However we had a lady last week who was concerned that she might be pregnant and I stumbled into some of these type articles in looking up some info related to her question. I don't know how reliable this magazine site is and they are talking about the average situation etc etc, but this is what they say (below).
I didn't read this article but this one or others usually base their opinions on firstly, conditions being ideal at the time getting pregnant is attempted. You can assess it for yourself and there are many factors involved which are not known by members here trying to answer your question.
http://www.parenting.com/article/pregnancy-at-20-30-40

[Oldies15]

Thank you I will check that out. And to answer your question I am 19 turning 20 soon. And I have been on and off with his since I was 10 years old.

[Oldies15]

Im currently in a difficutl situation. Has some of you know before from my previous question I had unprotected sex multiple times in 2 days & got my period 2 days later. Well here I am a week later from then & my period was heavy (normal) the first 2-4 days but the last 3 days I would say was light spotting & sum what dark. Im off it now but am still feeling pain in my stomach and vagina. I was wondering if with that information added can I have more advice on if I might be expecting a bun in the oven? "PLEASE NO -YOU HAd SEX OF COURSE There's A CHANCE- RESPONSES can some one please give me more then that?

[J_9]

I'm hoping that you are not pregnant considering that you are not in a stable relationship. Children need stability, and so far you haven't proved that.

As a Registered Nurse, I cannot give you any better of a response than..

YOU HAd SEX OF COURSE There's A CHANCE

. No one can give you a better response even if they have M.D. behind their name. Considering you had a period it seems apparent that you are NOT pregnant. The first sign of pregnancy is a MISSED period.

[Oldies15]

Yea I've heard that. And action wise it isn't. But anyway people tell me that because it came "so quickly afterwards" that I HAVE to wait till my next one. I had 3 friends who had sex and the next day she had her full on 'normal' period (8 days) & a couple weeks later found out she was pregnant. So could this possilby be happening to be due to the pain etc?.

[J_9]

You will read stories on the internet, hear stories from friends and/or family members. Every woman is different. There is no way to tell you one way or another until you miss your period and take a test whether it be a HPT or a blood test.

I really want to caution you though that you are having this "on off" relationship. Children aren't something that should be taken lightly. They need stability and so far you have not demonstrated that. I truly hope you are not pregnant.

[Oldies15]

Ok. Since we are on the relationship subject may I ask you a few questions on that?

[J_9]

Ok. Since we are on the relationship subject may i ask you a few questions on that?

Please start a new thread in the Relationship board.

[Oldies15]

Yea I don't know how to do that. I barely made this couple days ago

[JudyKayTee]

There are other issues with this pregnancy - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...-675883-2.html