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    #201

    Jun 24, 2012, 12:33 PM
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    You asked me what I thought and I told you. She has not said she is done but that does not mean that once all of this blows over she won't be. There is too much drama in this relationship for it to continue.
    This is just my opinion
    It's drama with her family not wanting her to be with me
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    #202

    Jun 24, 2012, 01:02 PM
    The drama is there no matter where it comes from. How long have you two been dating?
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    Jun 24, 2012, 01:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    The drama is there no matter where it comes from. How long have you two been dating?
    A year and 6 months and the love is so strong
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    #204

    Jun 24, 2012, 01:47 PM
    How long have you been having problems with her family? So you started dating her when she was 14 or so, almost 15? She does not even know who she is. This relationship is too intense. You need some growing up time.
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    #205

    Jun 24, 2012, 01:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    How long have you been having problems with her family? So you started dating her when she was 14 or so, almost 15? She does not even know who she is. This relationship is too intense. You need some growing up time.
    Ever since last summer when they found out we had relations.. She was only in trouble for a little bit but got her phone back and everything. And we were dating when she was 15 and I was 16.. And that's a long relationship and I don't know why your trying to turn on me when I'm just talking about my feelings...
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    #206

    Jun 24, 2012, 02:13 PM
    I'm not turning on you. You asked my opinion. Just because it is not what you want to hear it does mean I'm turning on you. I just want you to be prepared and think realistically.

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    #207

    Jun 24, 2012, 02:19 PM
    [QUOTE=noko2149;3166329]Ever since last summer when they found out we had relations.. She was only in trouble for a little bit but got her phone back and everything. And we were dating when she was 15 and I was 16.. And that's a long relationship and I don't know why your trying to turn on me when I'm just talking about my feelings... [/QUOTE
    So when did her dad file charges against you? There is a lot of drama here
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    #208

    Jun 24, 2012, 03:39 PM
    [QUOTE=Homegirl 50;3166356]
    Quote Originally Posted by noko2149 View Post
    Ever since last summer when they found out we had relations.. She was only in trouble for a lil bit but got her phone back and everything. and we were dating when she was 15 and I was 16.. And that's a long relationship and I don't know why your trying to turn on me when I'm just talking about my feelings ...[/QUOTE
    so when did her dad file charges against you? There is a lot of drama here
    I am.. I'm out I'll contact you later
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    #209

    Jun 24, 2012, 03:45 PM
    Have fun
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    #210

    Jun 24, 2012, 07:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Have fun
    My girl friend called me
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    #211

    Jun 24, 2012, 07:59 PM
    Good!
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    #212

    Jun 24, 2012, 08:01 PM
    You and she's willing to work things out and everything
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    #213

    Jun 24, 2012, 08:04 PM
    Good. Did you ask her about the charges filed?
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    #214

    Jun 24, 2012, 08:04 PM
    Is she going to be able to see and talk to you freely?
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    #215

    Jun 24, 2012, 08:20 PM
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    Is she going to be able to see and talk to you freely?
    We couldn't talk for long because her family was around her and she was whispering.. But she did say that she isn't mad at me or anything. She just doesn't want to get us in trouble and that she loves and still wants me and everything but seeing each other, we have to see what happens in court but her and I are on the same page and everything and both are relieved.
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    #216

    Jun 24, 2012, 08:32 PM
    Good.
    Have a good evening.
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    Jun 24, 2012, 08:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Good.
    Have a good evening.
    Can I hit u up tomorrow
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    #218

    Jun 25, 2012, 06:25 AM
    Are you surprised that she called?
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    #219

    Jun 25, 2012, 07:05 AM
    Not really. I think you two need to be careful. You still have these charges against you. In fact I think you need to not communicate at all until this is settled. This is really a mess.
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    #220

    Jun 25, 2012, 07:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Not really. I think you two need to be careful. You still have these charges against you. In fact I think you need to not communicate at all until this is settled. This is really a mess.
    I am being careful. It just feels good to know that she never gave up or anything and loves and wants me and wants to work things out. But I know we still have court but I know it's not going to get between us. When she had called, she seemed upset and was whispering on the phone and she was telling me that she has been in hell and I asked her what do you mean been in hell? And then the call hung up and I'm thinking she had to hide from her parents... But I know everything isn't 100% yet.

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