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    #181

    Jun 23, 2012, 07:20 PM
    I don't know. I will say that at your age, not likely. It is very rare that the person you are with in your teens id=s the one you end up with.
    But that is not true in all cases.

    I think she needs to be more independent from her family and that is not going to happen until she is older
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    #182

    Jun 23, 2012, 07:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I don't know. I will say that at your age, not likely. It is very rare that the person you are with in your teens id=s the one you end up with.
    But that is not true in all cases.

    I think she needs to be more independent from her family and that is not going to happen until she is older
    Our love is too strong to let go like that.. We've been through a lot together for it to end up like that..
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    #183

    Jun 23, 2012, 08:28 PM
    Our love is too strong to let go like that.. We've been through a lot together for it to end up like that..
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    #184

    Jun 23, 2012, 08:30 PM
    I'm just telling you how things are. It's late here, have a good night.
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    #185

    Jun 23, 2012, 08:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I'm just telling you how things are. It's late here, have a good night.
    Can we talk about this tomorro?
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    #186

    Jun 23, 2012, 08:32 PM
    Sure
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    #187

    Jun 23, 2012, 08:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Sure
    Ok
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    #188

    Jun 23, 2012, 08:46 PM
    Hey you don't listen to the other comments telling you that you shouldn't trust her did she tell you she didn't trust you?? If you truly love her go to that hospital and show her( GRAND GESTURE ) you NEVER let anyone stop you from loving the person you love, love is what keeps us all together without love people would be killing each other so you keep your head up and your smile on and you go see that girl and explain to her parents that she is one of the reasons you can't wait to wake up in the morning don't stop trying if you really love here like you say keep trying till her/your heart stops beating <3


    ALWAYS and FOREVER
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    #189

    Jun 23, 2012, 08:50 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ommi_kosher View Post
    hey you don't listen to the other comments telling you that you shouldn't trust her did she tell you she didn't trust you ??? if you truly love her go to that hospital and show her( GRAND GESTURE ) you NEVER let anyone stop you from loving the person you love, love is what keeps us all together without love people would be killing each other so you keep your head up and your smile on and you go see that girl and explain to her parents that she is one of the reasons you can't wait to wake up in the morning don't stop trying if you really love here like you say keep trying till her/your heart stops beating <3


    ALWAYS and FOREVER
    She's at her cousins house phone and Im just waiting to hear from her.. But she never said she didn't trust me. She knows I love her and that I'm busting my butt to keep her and I just hope that she will contact me soon when her parents aren't around. But I'm not going to give up my love for her because it's too strong and I know she wouldn't just throw that away.. Neither would I.
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    #190

    Jun 24, 2012, 06:07 AM
    I'm really upset... :(
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    #191

    Jun 24, 2012, 07:59 AM
    ommi_kosher there is a lot involved in this and obviously you have not read enough of this thread to know that. She is no longer in the hospital and there are reasons he can't just go waltzing up to her.
    He is on the right track
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    #192

    Jun 24, 2012, 08:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Noko2149 there is a lot involved in this and obviously you have not read enough of this thread to know that. She is mo longer in the hospital and there are reasons he can't just go waltzing up to her. He is on the right track
    Homegirl
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    #193

    Jun 24, 2012, 08:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Noko2149 there is a lot involved in this and obviously you have not read enough of this thread to know that. She is mo longer in the hospital and there are reasons he can't just go waltzing up to her. He is on the right track
    Homegirl50... I'm really upset and trying to keep my tears in but it's not working..
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    #194

    Jun 24, 2012, 09:04 AM
    I did not mean to post that one thing yo you but to the other person who replied.

    I know this is hard for you but you will get through this.
    I'm going to suggest you stop talking about it so much. It keeps you too focused on it.
    If her dad has charges filed against you, that should be your biggest concern, not this girl.
    You need to get back to living. Do you have a job?
    Do some volunteer work at an animal shelter or something. But stop obsessing over this girl
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    #195

    Jun 24, 2012, 09:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I did not mean to post that one thing yo you but to the other person who replied.

    I know this is hard for you but you will get through this.
    I'm going to suggest you stop talking about it so much. It keeps you too focused on it.
    If her dad has charges filed against you, that should be your biggest concern, not this girl.
    You need to get back to living. Do you have a job?
    Do some volunteer work at an animal shelter or something. But stop obsessing over this girl
    I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm obsessing over her. I just love and care for her.. We have just been through so much.. But I try every second to stay busy and I do but at the end of the day. I just can't stop thinking about her and the times that we have had.. My mom says that she thinks she won't move on either cause of what we have been through plus she isn't that type of person to let go of something that important..
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    #196

    Jun 24, 2012, 09:32 AM
    Well keep doing what you're doing. It will get easier.
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    #197

    Jun 24, 2012, 09:38 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Well keep doing what you're doing. It will get easier.
    But what you think about it like your opinion
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    #198

    Jun 24, 2012, 09:42 AM
    I have told you many times what I think.
    I think once all this blows over that will be it. I will be surprised if she calls.
    I think you ought to prepare yourself for that.
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    #199

    Jun 24, 2012, 10:20 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I have told you many times what I think.
    I think once all this blows over that will be it. I will be surprised if she calls.
    I think you ought to prepare yourself for that.
    What do you mean? She's not done with me. She never said she was
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    #200

    Jun 24, 2012, 12:11 PM
    You asked me what I thought and I told you. She has not said she is done but that does not mean that once all of this blows over she won't be. There is too much drama in this relationship for it to continue.
    This is just my opinion

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