[fitordie19]

So I met this guy and we went out on a date. We hit it off immediately and he would text me every day saying how much he liked me and how he wanted to meet up again. We went on a second date and he made future plans to take me out again and talked about all the fun stuff we could do together. Later that night after the date he text me saying he really liked me, but his text became less frequent and he hasn't text me for the past four days. I assumed he could be seeing other girls but he currently does not have a car and borrows his friend car when he wants to see me but I don't understand the abrupt ending to our conversations... Is he no longer interested or maybe I'm just looking to deep into the situation?

[ali18ninja]

It sounds like he was very interested. Keep in mind, he may have just wanted a quickie. I can't speak for every guy but every situation is different. If he hasn't texted you in that long, he may have found another girl. It's usually the case as we guys more than likely won't stop talking to a girl that we really like unless we meet one that we like more. I've been in a similar situation with a girl that I liked for a couple of years but I never confronted her. I found out that she had been bouncing between me and another guy but she ended up getting into a serious relationship with that other guy. I suggest you text him and ask him if he's still interested in you. Trust me, if a guy doesn't want to man up and confront you himself, putting him on the spot may just pull the answer out of him.

[Homegirl 50]

Send him a text "How are you? Haven't heard from you in a while, hope all is well" If you don't hear back from him you'll know he has moved on.
Or just assume that anyway and forget about him

[Carpa14]

The guy definitely likes you. He probably doesn't want to text you every second because he'll think he's coming on as too desperate just give it a few more days the be like " hey I was going to catch a movie, want to come?" or something along those lines, goodluck!

[Ipodtouch]

In situation's like this you need to be upfront. Ask him straight up, just say "i've noticed you have been distant, are you okay?"

If he say's he has been busy - forget it! Don't text back until he makes a effort.

If he bes honest and admits a problem then fine try an resolve it.

If he still doesn't make an effort after you have questioned it, then leave it!

Find someone else..