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    #101

    Jun 21, 2012, 02:44 PM
    You know?
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    #102

    Jun 21, 2012, 02:53 PM
    I know it is hard. But you will get through this.
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    Jun 21, 2012, 03:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I know it is hard. But you will get through this.
    I know.. I'm at the beach with my friend then later we are going fishing so I'm trying to stay busy
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    #104

    Jun 21, 2012, 03:14 PM
    Good for you. Enjoy yourself. I'm proud of you
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    #105

    Jun 21, 2012, 03:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Good for you. Enjoy yourself. I'm proud of you
    Thanks. I'll contact you a little later
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    #106

    Jun 21, 2012, 05:45 PM
    So the beach was good. I was hoping to see her there but didn't so me and my friend were chilling and we didn't get to fish cause it was getting late. Then my friend texts me asking what was wrong with me and I told her and then she was going to speak to my girlfriend and she asked her what was going on and she said that she didn't want to talk about it and that its too much drama right now.
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    #107

    Jun 21, 2012, 05:48 PM
    Leave it alone. Stop talking about it to people who know her hoping it will get back to her. You are causing more harm than good. That is why I said don't try and fix anything.
    Leave it alone. She will contact you when and if she wants to. In the meantime live your life
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    #108

    Jun 21, 2012, 05:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Leave it alone. Stop talking about it to people who know her hoping it will get back to her. You are causing more harm than good. That is why I said don't try and fix anything.
    Leave it alone. She will contact you when and if she wants to. In the meantime live your life
    I am.. I'm just saying. U know
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    #109

    Jun 21, 2012, 05:53 PM
    You said you were hoping to see her at the beach. Why? You talked to someone who knows her about what was going on. I told you not to do that. It got back to her, I think you knew it would. Stop talking about it to people who know her. Stop trying to fix things. Leave it alone.
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    #110

    Jun 21, 2012, 05:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You said you were hoping to see her at the beach. Why? You talked to someone who knows her about what was going on. I told you not to do that. It got back to her, I think you knew it would. Stop talking about it to people who know her. Stop trying to fix things. Leave it alone.
    They just wanted to know what was wrong.. I'll just let things cool down
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    #111

    Jun 21, 2012, 05:57 PM
    You say what she said." I don't want to talk about it"
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    #112

    Jun 21, 2012, 06:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You say what she said." I don't want to talk about it"
    I will.. The only thing I can do is pray
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    #113

    Jun 21, 2012, 06:45 PM
    Now that's a thought!
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    #114

    Jun 21, 2012, 06:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Now that's a thought!
    Yes. But I'm going to try my hardest and stay positive
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    #115

    Jun 21, 2012, 07:20 PM
    Yes. But I'm going to try my hardest and stay positive
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    #116

    Jun 21, 2012, 07:23 PM
    I hope no one minds if I jump in here. I can tell you are trying to leave it alone and get on with your life.
    But you really need to continue to take Homegirls advice about not contacting her and talking about her to friends in the hopes that it will get back to her.
    I say this mainly for one reason, this girl has health issues one of which is stomach ulcers.
    I have ulcers and have for many years so I know how things may affect her physically.
    Continuing to try and stay in her life, thoughts and conversations no doubt makes her feel like she is in the middle of you and her family. In the middle is not a fun place to be.
    I'm sure this is stressful for her and one of the worst things for ulcers is stress.
    So if you love her as you say then think of her health and let it be.
    Keep going out with your friends and having fun, but leave her out of it.
    Maybe she will get to a place where she contacts you, maybe not, but you must not put your life on hold.
    As far as her parents go, I'm sure they are upset about the fact that there was sexual contact, but at the same time they are concerned about her health I'm sure.
    Understand those two facts and you may see where they are coming from.
    Kudos for trying so hard and keep the positive attitude.
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    Jun 21, 2012, 07:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by LadySam View Post
    I hope no one minds if i jump in here. I can tell you are trying to leave it alone and get on with your life.
    But you really need to continue to take Homegirls advice about not contacting her and talking about her to friends in the hopes that it will get back to her.
    I say this mainly for one reason, this girl has health issues one of which is stomach ulcers.
    I have ulcers and have for many years so I know how things may affect her physically.
    Continuing to try and stay in her life, thoughts and conversations no doubt makes her feel like she is in the middle of you and her family. In the middle is not a fun place to be.
    I'm sure this is stressful for her and one of the worst things for ulcers is stress.
    So if you love her as you say then think of her health and let it be.
    Keep going out with your friends and having fun, but leave her out of it.
    Maybe she will get to a place where she contacts you, maybe not, but you must not put your life on hold.
    As far as her parents go, I'm sure they are upset about the fact that there was sexual contact, but at the same time they are concerned about her health I'm sure.
    Understand those two facts and you may see where they are coming from.
    Kudos for trying so hard and keep the positive attitude.
    I know what you mean.. I haven't contacted her or anything.. I'm just going to pray
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    #118

    Jun 22, 2012, 07:27 AM
    I know what you mean.. I haven't contacted her or anything.. I'm just going to pray
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    #119

    Jun 22, 2012, 08:15 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by noko2149 View Post
    I know what you mean.. I haven't contacted her or anything.. I'm just going to pray
    Do you think she will get to a place to where she can contact me?
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    Jun 22, 2012, 09:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by noko2149 View Post
    Do you think she will get to a place to where she can contact me?
    No one can possibly know the answer to that.
    Time will tell. You really need to stop stressing about it, your young, it's summer-go enjoy it.
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