[zorax007]

I have been in 2 past relationships where I have been cheated on and I met this girl who was so nice to and new of what I went o and promise not to put me through this angain. Been together for a year and she did the same thing.really hurt me. Now she wants to fix things but its kind of hard.I really do love her but she broke her promise. Took some space and met someone else who is so sweet and different. But its always like that at the start. I really do love this new girl feels so different but the other won't let go and part of me won't either. What should I do.

[C0bra_M3nace]

You seem to be jumping into relationships really quickly. Are you even over your ex? It seems to me like you're attracting far too many cheaters in a row, I find this odd. I think you're ruining your own relationships by going out with these girls, while still not over you exes. Believe it or not, it can ruin relationships. Girls want to be with confident guys, not a guy who moans and whines about his past relationships and what went wrong.

If you want this new girl to be different, don't talk about your past relationships, just say they happened, don't go into detail it's none of her business and she probably doesn't want it to be her business.

If you're not over your ex, the one that just cheated on you, then I would probably suggest either taking it extremely slow with this new girl until you've gotten over you ex, or tell her you're not ready. If she's waits for you, then she's worth fighting for.

[mmresd]

What you should do is stop boucing from relationship to relationship. You need to give yourself proper healing time before you start talking to someone else, that is what happens whenever you go into a relationship without having properly healed from the last one. Breka up with both of them, go no contact, and work on yourself, when you are over both of them completely, DO NOT contact them, but go out and meet people with the proper state of mind.