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    #61

    Jun 20, 2012, 03:38 PM
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    There is nothing you can do for her if she is, but you can get out and not sit around moping. That is if you really want to.
    I will go out its just that it won't mean that I'm better and happy
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    #62

    Jun 20, 2012, 04:14 PM
    I'm not saying you will be happy, I'm saying it will help you get through this. So do you want your girl friend to know that you are miserable? Do you think that will make her feel better?
    I'm assuming it won't.
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    Jun 20, 2012, 04:25 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I'm not saying you will be happy, I'm saying it will help you get through this. So do you want your girl friend to know that you are miserable? Do you think that will make her feel better?
    I'm assuming it won't.
    She already knows I'm sad and I know she sad too.. And I'm trying, I'm trying it's just hard and you should understand what I'm going through I hope..
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    Jun 20, 2012, 04:43 PM
    I know it's hard but I also know mopping around changes nothing. Make better use of this time
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    Jun 20, 2012, 04:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I know it's hard but I also know mopping around changes nothing. Make better use of this time
    I'm trying my best.. I really am
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    Jun 20, 2012, 04:49 PM
    Well leave the subject alone for today. Go out to a movie, read book, something to get your mind off this.
    I will be here tomorrow if you need me.
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    Jun 20, 2012, 04:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Well leave the subject alone for today. Go out to a movie, read book, something to get your mind off this.
    I will be here tomorrow if you need me.
    Ok thanks so much. I'll send you a message tomorrow
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    #68

    Jun 20, 2012, 04:57 PM
    Have a good evening
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    Jun 21, 2012, 05:36 AM
    Ok so yesterday I went to one of my friends birthday dinner at a restaurant and then we all drove to the beach to hang out then went home.. It was good but yet at the end of the day, I think about her and ever since this incident started, I have had that feeling in my stomach you know? Just won't go away.
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    Jun 21, 2012, 08:25 AM
    Anyone there?
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    Jun 21, 2012, 08:44 AM
    I'm glad that you went out.
    I can understand your feeling that way. You will have them less and less. Just keep yourself busy
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    Jun 21, 2012, 09:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I'm glad that you went out.
    I can understand your feeling that way. You will have them less and less. Just keep yourself busy
    I know but it's not going to mean I'm happy
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    #73

    Jun 21, 2012, 09:34 AM
    You could be relatively so if you want to be. I think you want to be miserable.
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    Jun 21, 2012, 09:40 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You could be relatively so if you want to be. I think you want to be miserable.
    What do u mean by that? I'm just asking.
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    Jun 21, 2012, 09:45 AM
    I think you believe that being miserable proves your love for this girl. It's like you're saying to her "see how miserable I am, I love you" It proves nothing and drags you down. Miserable people are not fun people to be around. You get comfortable in your misery and you stay there.
    I think you need to shake this off, have fun and live your life as if she may not call you. If she does great, if she doesn't you are on your way to moving on.
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    Jun 21, 2012, 09:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    I think you believe that being miserable proves your love for this girl. It's like you're saying to her "see how miserable I am, I love you" It proves nothing and drags you down. Miserable people are not fun people to be around. You get comfortable in your misery and you stay there.
    I think you need to shake this off, have fun and live your life as if she may not call you. If she does great, if she doesn't you are on your way to moving on.
    I'm not trying to be miserable just hard
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    Jun 21, 2012, 10:03 AM
    What do you mean just hard?
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    Jun 21, 2012, 10:13 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    What do you mean just hard?
    Like this whole situation is hard and all I want to do is talk about it and make things right and better
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    Jun 21, 2012, 10:24 AM
    Talking about it is not going to change it. You need to prepare yourself for the worse( she may not call you back) You can't make things happen in this case. Stop talking so much about this, dwelling on this. It changes nothing
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    Jun 21, 2012, 10:27 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Talking about it is not going to change it. You need to prepare yourself for the worse( she may not call you back) You can't make things happen in this case. Stop talking so much about this, dwelling on this. It changes nothing
    I know she's not going to right now because of everything going on right now
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