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    harika89 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 19, 2012, 10:57 PM
    Why my boyfriend is suspicious of me!
    Hi

    I have been in a relationship for past 4 years, from then on. My boyfriend is suspicious on me. Before being in a relation I had a very good friend of mine whom my boyfriend hated. It constantly brought troubles in my love life and I gave up my friendship. It’s been two years since I had any informal communication with my friend, but still my boyfriend suspects I am speaking with him or in touch with him.

    But I am really not. I have been being abused and tortured upon this for many times. Just because I love him so much and I am breathing life into our relationship. He never understands how much I am hurt though I tried explaining him many times. But I know he loves me too.

    All the four years we have been in a long distance relationship, so I thought it might be due to the communication gap. But now I feel our relationship is missing a basic concept of trust! I can’t even imagine my life without him. Please suggest me what can I do!

    Sometimes I lose my self-confidence and feel dejected. Please help! :( :(
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    Jun 20, 2012, 04:13 AM
    Suspicion to a high degree, such as in this case, can be commonly mistaken with untrustworthy. Sounds to me like he does not trust you.

    No trust, no relationship. I suggest packing it up if he doesn't want to stop and trust you.
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    Jun 20, 2012, 04:55 AM
    It also sounds like you have just about maxed out a long distance relationship. How often do you meet in person ? Long distance only works for so long, 4 years is often past how long they can last.
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    Jun 20, 2012, 10:58 AM
    4 years long distance?? That's way to long to be going through this kind of thing! Its kicking you both in the butt, and is stressing you BOTH!

    WHY has it lasted this long, and how much longer before the LDR is over, for good??
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