[katzm]

We have been living together for 9 months or so, and have only had sex maybe 4 or 5 times since we met. We are both 52. He says I love you but there is absolutely no romance, no touching,and no kissing unless it's a peck, well unless he has a 12 pack of beer in him. He gets angry with me for no reason. I know part of the problem is that he is manic depressive with ptsd and anxietys. I feel like I'm walking around on eggshells half the time. I don't know what I'm supposed to say or do anymore. I know he still has feelings for his ex even though he denies it. She hurt him terribly by cheating on him. He says he doesn't give a crap about her - than why talk about her? What do I do I love him.

[mmresd]

I believe that actions speak louder than words, tell him how you feel, if he can't get with the program then you should find someone that is better suitable for your needs.

[andrea-grace]

Well if you feel like he talks about her more than anything, you need to let him know ho you feel its important to let him know if he continues... You know you should find someone else who could suit you a lot better than someone who is stuck on their ex.