[mommyx3]

I have been married for over 12 years and we have three children. This is my problem: My husband very obviously wants sex. The only time he touches me is because he wants sex. I never get a hug or a kiss. I am never told "I love you." He doesn't hold me hand. His way of touching involves tickling me or groping me or spanking me... and I can't stand any of it. When we do have sex, he almost completely ignores foreplay and gets straight to it. I have put up with this for years and I simply cannot stand it anymore. I have told him how I feel about this time and time again, but he doesn't do anything to change and seems to forget we ever had a converstation about it. I feel frustrated and alone. I have completely cut him off as of late and he stomps around as if he hasn't a clue as to why I am being so frigid. I am fed up! Help!