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    trujillo 46 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 15, 2012, 09:31 AM
    My ex girlfriend wants to become friends, For what?
    Hey guys what’s going on? My name its Enrique I'm 22 years old my girlfriend left me about a month ago, and according to her because of my insecurity and I was too immature. Everything started when she start going out with her best guy friend after few weeks she ask me for a break and the same day she regretted it, and told me to continue as a couple. The next day told me that people don’t change at the following day she break up with me.

    I try anything to get her back at the end I just stop talking with her for almost a month. A week after she broke up with me she went into a relationship with her best guy friend. No contact rule, but a week ago she send me a message over Facebook told me that she apologize about everything she doesn’t want us to end up in bad terms and that she misses me and our long talks.

    The following days she told me that her intentions were not hurt me but I have to understand that me and her were not meant to be because of our little irrelevant fights and I hope you can find someone who you going to make really happy and I hope we can become friends, friends for what?
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jun 16, 2012, 01:02 PM
    I use to say okay, and then just did my own thing at the friends stuff after you get dumped for whatever reason. That friends stuff is just a nice way of getting forgiveness for dumping you, eases the guilt of hurting you, and keeps you around so she has a boyfriend and a friend.

    Move on, and do your thing. No more contact.

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