[john90]

Thank you

[Homegirl 50]

How old are you. Are you seeing a counselor about your anxiety and depression?
Is there not one person you can talk to to find out if this ignoring thing has bases?

[Wondergirl]

Please name three specific incidents where friends have taken advantage of you and your good will.

[john90]

I'm 18 and I have talked to many therapists and counselors, but I've never accomplished anything with them. They've even put me on antidepressants but I hated the way the medication made me feel so I stopped taking it. Instances in which my friends have taken advantage of me have happened when I have money to throw into the equation, and they also always act really nice whenever I have a certain connection for things like weed that they want. Other than that everyone isolates me and they all seem to be in agreement to not respond to me in any manner.

[Wondergirl]

Is there someone you are still connected who would be honest with you about why this situation exists?

Are you seeing a therapist now?

[Homegirl 50]

I would also add that theses are not your friends. They had an ulterior motive for talking to you from the beginning.
Maybe you should try and make new friends rather than worry about the faux ones.
Do you have someone who is a friend outside of what you can do for them?

[john90]

There is no one I can talk to and ask because no one is talking to me. Even though these people aren't my friends they are the closest thing I have to friends. I do have friends who don't take advantage of me but they have also been ignoring me so I don't know if it is something I did or if there is information about me floating around that I am unaware of. I am not seeing a therapist and I don't plan on seeing one since I have tried multiple ones and they have only been a waste of time.

[Wondergirl]

Did you ever tell any of the therapists that you were unhappy with the course of therapy and felt they were a waste of time?

Was there one you liked more than any of the others?

[Wondergirl]

I have some ideas and hope you will post again.

[john90]

Thank you

[Wondergirl]

So even thought you complained, your therapists were clueless and helpless?

Is this a fairly recent development with you?

[Homegirl 50]

I have always thought that pledging stuff superficial, it seems to foster cliques and sometimes rude and nasty behavior. I never understood such a need to be part of a group.
I think you should try therapy again and a new set of friends.