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    #21

    Mar 7, 2007, 05:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by valinors_sorrow
    That you are rushing it mostly doesn't say good things to me, ya know? What's the rush here? Is there some kind of deadline??
    You are right! Guys usually interested in me having sex. In my most relationship, sex is first then the relationship. For that reason, to me it si weird that he does not want sex. I think through the years, I lost my sensitive part! Funny and tragic! Isn't it?
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    Mar 7, 2007, 06:23 PM
    Damn is he gay... lol sorry but that's my first thought.. so is he a virgin or not... he might be hiding something...
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    #23

    Mar 8, 2007, 06:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jennifer2007
    u r right! Guys usually interested in me having sex. In my most relationship, sex is first then the relationship. For that reason, to me it si weird that he does not want sex. I think through the years, I lost my sensitive part! funny and tragic! isn't it?
    Maybe this is a wake up call for you?
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    Mar 12, 2007, 06:47 PM
    I wanted to give an update. We talked about it. He said before we have sex, he wants to be sure about us %100, and he feels right about us but not always! I asked him when he does not feel right, he doesn't know. Also, he has some bad experiences. Is it possible that he is that sensitive? I never met anybody like that.
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    #25

    Mar 13, 2007, 04:32 AM
    Of course it is possible that he is sensitive. I think that it is commendable that he wants to wait to make sure that he is 100% into the relationship before he has sex.

    Sex could really mess up a new relationship and it can cloud the judgement of both people involved. By waiting he is showing that he is mature enough to see sex to soon could hurt your relationship. Which is good right? It shows that he is into you enough to want to really try and make it work.
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    Nov 27, 2010, 04:47 PM
    OK for me its kind of weird I never heard of a man that is I guess supposedly a virgin but its kind of cute if he is... lol
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    Nov 29, 2010, 06:18 AM

    This post was over 3 years old... please read the dates before responding to an OLD thread.

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