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    tayxlor19 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 13, 2012, 11:12 AM
    Can't get boyfriends sexting/cheating past
    My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. About 6 months into our relationship (during high school) I found out he had been sexting some girl I had known and was friends with. She also lives down the street from me. I was heartbroken but tried to forgive him.

    As months went by I caught him sexting more girls (but like an idiot) I forgave him again. Little did I know he had started sexting the first girl again about a year after it happened the first time. This continued to go on but they both promised not to let it happen again.

    About 12 girls and 3 years later I am more miserable than ever. He has given me no reason not to trust him anymore but I cannot seem to let go. I constantly find myself comparing myself to them and it makes me miserable. Also living around the corner from the first girl makes it harder seeing her almost everyday. I want our relationship to work but I just don't know how to forgive and forget.
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    Jun 13, 2012, 11:43 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tayxlor19 View Post
    My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. About 6 months into our relationship (during high school) I found out he had been sexting some girl I had known and was friends with. She also lives down the street from me. I was heartbroken but tried to forgive him.

    As months went by I caught him sexting more girls (but like an idiot) I forgave him again. Little did I know he had started sexting the first girl again about a year after it happened the first time. This continued to go on but they both promised not to let it happen again.

    About 12 girls and 3 years later I am more miserable than ever. He has given me no reason not to trust him anymore but I cannot seem to let go. I constantly find myself comparing myself to them and it makes me miserable. Also living around the corner from the first girl makes it harder seeing her almost everyday. I want our relationship to work but I just don't know how to forgive and forget.


    I see no help at all except counselling. For some reason you can't walk away and for some reason he can't stop sexting.

    He probably continues the behavior because he can.

    You need to learn more about you and let him handle his own problems.

    Sound like a possibility?
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