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normanavarrete · Jun 13, 2012, 03:16 AM

All right well my boyfriend has never told me he loves me but he's always so sweet to me texts me all the time to see how I am and etc and the other guy I love I have known him for 6 years we dated before for 2 years and 6 moths but we broke up and I haven't stop liking him he told me he loves me and of course I do too and I don't know what to do. Stay with my boyfriend or go for the guy I love I really don't want to hurt my bf's feelings I really need an advice help Please?

C0bra_M3nace · Jun 13, 2012, 04:05 AM

First off, what are you thinking going back with an ex. It didn't work out the first time, why would it be any different this time?

Secondly, you sound like you were never over your ex in the first place, so what are you doing in a relationship with someone else, that relationship was set to fail.

Lastly, you're hurting your current boyfriend either way. Your relationship won't last if you still have feelings for your ex. If you don't end up leaving him for your ex, your still going to hurt him in the long run.

talaniman · Jun 13, 2012, 05:11 AM

You don't want to hurt your boyfriend, but its okay to cheat by talking to an ex behind his back?

First stop cheating behind the BFs' back, and start being honest. If you want the ex, let the boyfriend go. Its going to be hurt feelings regardless, so make a decision, and if you can't, keep being a player on them both.

Actually you shouldn't be with anyone unless YOU know what you want. For sure let one go, and leave the other one alone.

normanavarrete · Jun 13, 2012, 01:54 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

You don't want to hurt your boyfriend, but its okay to cheat by talking to an ex behind his back?

First stop cheating behind the BFs' back, and start being honest. If you want the ex, let the boyfriend go. Its going to be hurt feelings regardless, so make a decision, and if you can't, keep being a player on them both.

Actually you shouldn't be with anyone unless YOU know what you want. For sure let one go, and leave the other one alone.

I'm not cheating on my boyfriend for sure and I'm not a player I just don't know what to do just confuse I bet you been there before

Wondergirl · Jun 13, 2012, 02:00 PM

Originally Posted by normanavarrete

I'm not cheating on my boyfriend for sure and im not a player I just don't know what to do just confuse I bet you been there before

You said several times you love your ex. That's cheating on your boyfriend. Mature people finish with one relationship before they move on to another one.

talaniman · Jun 13, 2012, 06:00 PM

Are you still in contact with the ex since you have been with the neew guy? That's the impression you give. That's cheating. However if all this is just a thought of going back to him and trying again, then it's a fantasy. It maybe interfering with your relationship, and that's not cheating, but its not fair either.