[fallenhero]

So I have been going out with my GF for like 2 years... We love each other dearly but lately there has been a weird vibe between us. Ever since the start of summer break from college, she's been going out a lot and drinking and all that. At first I didn't mind it because I know how stressful college can be. But the thing is she has been going out like every day and it really bothers me. I actually took a 1 week vacation from work just to spend with her but I never got to spend any time with her at all. That kind of didn't sit right with me as I couldn't even get just one week of her time from her 4 month break. But even after I started work again she keeps on going out all the time to bars and clubs and just drink with her "Girlfriends".

It got to the point where I can even text or call her and she wouldn't even answer me and that gets me really pissed because she never did that and I know she's sees that it's me calling but she doesn't answer.SO I started getting ideas in my mind that maybe she is out with somebody else and that is why she doesn't want to answer me or reply. And when I ask her if she's with somebody else she gets pissed at me and says that's the reason she doesn't answer me.

I love my GF but I feel like we just keep growing apart from each other by the days. I confronted her about it and she said that I'm being jealous and I'm holding her down that I don't want her to go out. We used to be together all the time and now it's like I can't even get to see her for like a whole week as she says she's going to sleep at her friend's house and that really get to me as I don't like that idea one bit. When we get to see each other we start arguing as I get to tell her that she is turning to somebody else and not the same person that I met 2 years ago.

She said she wanted a break from the relationship but she still talks to me. I honestly feel betrayed as I actually get to foot all her bills and what not and I can't even get to spend time with her anymore. Could someone please help me understand her as I don't know what is going on with her but my guts tell me something is going to happen but I don't know what it is and my guts have never lied to me before.

Has anybody had a similar experience and would like to help a brother out please.

[talaniman]

When communications break down, and you are no longer a priority, its time to go. Maybe that's the point of her behavior. She wants you to dump her, and you should, and forget paying her bills.

She deserves the "disappear" method if what you have written is true. Simply disappear, be unavailable for any contact or conversation, and let her figure it out. Keep your money in your pocket. And before you go making the love excuses, consider her behavior. That ain't even a half a love and her actions are down right disrespectful.

Who in their right mind put up with that? Stand for yourself, or fall for more BS!

Just my opinion here but her actions are those of one who has better things to do than be with you. Make it so!