[Chickie5695]

My boyfriend & I have been together almost 2 years. He's a very sweet boyfriend. I love him & am very comfortable with him. He would never cheat. However, we have 2 totally different sex drives. I could have sex every day. It's been months since we've had sex. Now it's to the point I am not turned on by him. I'm afraid to take this relationship any further. We are both 31. Any advice? :(

[CravenMorhead]

I think you have your answer. Differing sex drives can often create huge splits in couples. One feels neglected and the other hounded. I think you've likely moved on, being that you aren't turned on by him any more. All that is left is saying good bye.

[Fr_Chuck]

At 31, a man, not wanting sex for several months is a worry for me, I know there are different levels, but most men in there 30s, a low drive is two or three times a month,

Is there other issues in his life ? Stress, money, work , family issues ? Would there be religious issues from his past or current about sex outside of marriage that is restricting his behavior.

And have you sat down and talked to him, if you can't sit down and talk about it, and both be honest, there relationship is in serious trouble because of communication