[broadwayk]

My friend and I have been friends for about two years. But over the last two or three months, we've been fighting and arguing a lot and our friendship hasn't been the same. During the time we'd been arguing, another girl became friends with him, and I feel like she's replaced me. I've tried acting the same way I used to before all the fighting, but it's not working and he doesn't seem to want to be the same friends we were before. I don't want to try too hard to get him to like me, but is there anyway that we can be the way we were before without me seeming clingy or desperate?

[farmgirl13]

Tell him exactly what you just said. Tell him how you feel. About the deperaste thing, just tell him that your not trying to be deperaste just want to fix the friendship. Guys are confusing and normally never see anything that girls see. So he probably doesn't even know what happened. And plus telling him how you feel might feel awk and nuts but it works. So will feel a lot better after talking to him

[C0bra_M3nace]

Friends come and go, the true test of friendship lies within the hardship. I have one true friend who I can go to and talk to and joke about anything. We get into arguments all the time, we have disagreements, we all do, we've said harsh things to one another, but we are still to this day friends. That is a true friend. If he is as good a friend as you think, he will come back. If he doesn't, you learned the hard way that he is no true friend and sometimes in life, we need to learn the hard way.

[ILYme4eva1]

The key to this sort of situation is to not worry about what he thinks of you. Just be yourself no matter what. And don't worry, I know what it feels like to lose a good friend to somebody else, in fact it happened at the start of this year. But I got on with my life and sure enough everything turned out fine. You have done all you can for your friend and yourself so now just let time and fate decide your future and don't worry about a thing.

[talaniman]

Maybe its time to back off and make other friends and see what happens down the road, as friendships do change, and they should never be forced. Do nothing is what I advise.

Why are you arguing? How old are you?