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harrygauss · Jun 1, 2012, 05:56 AM

I have recently moved to an all boys high school, but loved a girl who is a year below me in primary. I told her that I like her and she kept her cool(which is one of the reasons that I love her in the first place) but she tried to convince that she wasn't worth loving. This only made me love her more. I have got a younger sister in that grade who knows that I like her. I hve thought about getting her to pass on a note. I have 2 questions;
1) should I give her a note and if so, what do I say?
2) is it worth the trouble or should I move on? if I do I won't find another Peron until after high school which is in 6 years and I can't wait that long.

I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Since I am so much in love with her, I would prefer some advice that doesn't include getting over her, but if I have I will

Please help!!

Homegirl 50 · Jun 1, 2012, 06:48 AM

If you are away a school what kind of relationship can you have with her anyway?
I don't see why you can't be friends with her or any other girl for that matter.
She already knows you like her. Declaring your love is not going to make a difference.

Fr_Chuck · Jun 1, 2012, 06:54 AM

If you want to be her friend, write her about things going on in your school, things you are doing. But no if you talk to serious at this age you will just scare her away.

And most people don't even meet or know the girl or boy they will be dating and marry till after they leave high school. The early emotions seem strong and a first love is always special.

garryhauss · Jun 1, 2012, 07:21 AM

I know where she lives and she knows where I live(long story) and its close by. There were rumors going around saying that she liked me and it made me relise. She blushed a lot around me and was considerably nice to me. We were friends at one stage because of our combined years and in the same class next to each other. I got to know her and she got to know me. Then I told her and she acted all weird around like trying to tease me, but being nice when it was just us 2.

garryhauss · Jun 1, 2012, 07:22 AM

P.S This is my other account that I made because harrygauss screwed up so I will use this now.

garryhauss · Jun 1, 2012, 07:25 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

If you are away a school what kind of relationship can you have with her anyway?
I don't see why you can't be friends with her or any other girl for that matter.
She already knows you like her. Declaring your love is not going to make a difference.

You know I would love to know any other girl but franclly I now know only two who are friends and that want change because they both got boyfriends(which by the way are the crappiest low lives who boast about anything and everything and treat my friends like **** how can you treat someone who likes you like a pile of crap?) Seriously some people just don't know respect.

garryhauss · Jun 1, 2012, 07:30 AM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

If you want to be her friend, write her about things going on in your school, things you are doing. But no if you talk to serious at this age you will just scare her away.

And most people don't even meet or know the girl or boy they will be dating and marry till after they leave high school. The early emotions seem strong and a first love is always special.

I can see your point but I have experienced deep depression before when my friend was trajeckly killed. Ever since then I have been a bit wonky but can normally keep it under control. I don't want to lose her, we might have had something, even if it is only temporarily, it would boost a lot in me so I think it is a positive for me, and it may even last.