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Hi,

I am engaged in a telephonic conversation with a girl for like 2 months. Whenever I asked her that am I your boyfriend she said no we can’t be like this but we would marry each other. Bf girlfriend relationship is something not everlasting. We were very close and talking to each other for hours day and night and then she got into a useless fight with me and said bye. I said bye in response and she got offended. So this happened for 2/3 times. After that we use to talk but she use to talk little and like someone is in a rush or you take interfere someone while doing her favorite thing. Her behavior was like that. One day she sent me 2 3 sms and I didn’t reply and I got another sms from her that I think we should not talk. You are weird this and that, putting every blame on me. After a couple of days I sent a single reply as OK and she got offended and said "you are ok with this don’t try to be cool. You pissed me of that’s why I had to say this".

The other day she called me and confessed that she likes an old friend and was very close to me but on the back of her mind there was this guy all the time but he does not have time for me what should I do. Everything was perfect between us and because of this thing I
Screwed it. I said go for it decide yourself. It’s your life and enjoy it whoever you want to be with.

I need to know what should I do with her. What does she want? She is a teenager and I am +25 settled in my life. It does not matter to me if she leaves but it does also that I only talk to that girl. I am not a kind that talks too many at a time or be friends with many girls.
Please advice

She said she messed it up everything. She also said I don't want to get engaged now when she already told me that she wants to get engaged with me after 2 months. She goes back and forth on her words and her feelings.she also lied to me and I caught her but stayed quite but now I told her straight away even though she was trying to protect herself. Lol she says she does not lie. HOLLY ****.
Anyway

[mmresd]

If she likes someone else then you will need to respect her decision and start moving on. No point in sticking around when her interests are somewhere else.

[talaniman]

That's what you get messing with a teen ager, and over the phone. I highly suggest you leave the yong girl alone, and learn to meet and deal with girls your age who are settled as you are. That's the real problem, you expect a kid to act like a grown female.

I don't know if its acceptable in your culture for a 25 year old to even talk to a teen ager, and if you think you can even date her, why have you not met her parents? Dude, what part of teen age thrills are you not familiar with?

Forget this telephone relationship, and pursue a more mature form of romance guy.