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chrisahhh · May 30, 2012, 09:57 PM

Ok me and my girlfreind have been dating for awhile now and before hand we went through A lot of stuff before we could finally be together like just a lot of things wouldn't let us like family and stuff and before that/during that we've been pretty much best friends too the whole time like we tell each other everything and get super along and rarley fight and when we do we only fight for like 5 minutes then its over.. well latley because of the end of the school year we haven't been seeing each other a lot latley and we've basically only been hanging out a couple times a week, but I can text her when I can/ call, I hungout with her this weekend though 3 days in a row and she ended up and had sex with me for the first time like EVER she was a virgin, and afterwards she was scared I was going to break up with her or something and we got really emotional and yeah. But we solved that later. Then Ive been texting her latley and she has been acting weird like speaking "monotone" in text when she is usually all hyper and giddy, and I called her to talk to her and she said that basically she wanted a 2 week break away from each other but NOT break up, just so she can I don't know.. exactly she said for some strange reason she is getting really irritable with me for no reason and she doesn't want to be annoyed with me and break up with me/lose interest in me cause she usually does that and she wants a 'break' to make us better... me I took it as a "oh " sign but I've kind of been playing her game but she seems really happy according to her FB/twitter so I don't know, should I be worried? And prepare for the end or will things get better cause I'm her first "love" and I'm really confused right now guys

Wondergirl · May 30, 2012, 10:05 PM

Couples don't "take a break" with the idea of getting back together. Mature couples work out whatever problem there is. My guess is that this is the prelude to a final break and her weaseling out in what she thinks is a "nice" and "kind" way.

chrisahhh · May 30, 2012, 10:11 PM

That's the thing..
Like we've worked everything up until this I don't know if it had something to do with me taking her virginity or something, cause I don't know we are really close just randomly this happened so you think its bad?

Wondergirl · May 30, 2012, 10:14 PM

This same question has been asked many times here. Only once that I recall did a couple actually get back together.

Is she perhaps regretting what happened?

chrisahhh · May 30, 2012, 10:16 PM

Idk I think so well not regret just I don't think she really was 100% ready like I didn't push her but I don't think she did... and gah
... man that's not good

Wondergirl · May 30, 2012, 10:23 PM

She could be overthinking it and who knows what. She may have realized she just gave away something she should have kept holding on to. And who knows what her friends have said to her, if she told anyone.

How old is she?

Wondergirl · May 30, 2012, 10:26 PM

Hmmmmm. You can tell her 1) no break, and we have to work out whatever is the problem, or 2) break only if she tells you why, or 3) it will be a permanent break

chrisahhh · May 30, 2012, 10:28 PM

She's 16 I'm 17 I just graduated, and like all of her friends love me (she didn't tell anyone but her bestfriend) her family loves me I talk to them all the time and she lives like 2 blocks away lol.. but I don't know I think she's just rushed with emotions and doesn't want to break up with me so she wants me to leave her alone Ish..
But then again that's what I WANT it to be like, I do know that me and her and a couple other friends are going to a amusmentparj Saturday (we planned this a long time ago) and it isn't going to be cancelled so I don't know what I should do then too? Or what

chrisahhh · May 30, 2012, 10:31 PM

Her "problem" well what she said is that"she doesn't want us to break up, and she has been feeling really umm "overwhelmed " by us and she wants a small break so we can continue being happy...

chrisahhh · May 30, 2012, 10:31 PM

Today's the 2nd day, of the break we spoke a little bit today but none yesterday

Wondergirl · May 30, 2012, 10:35 PM

Start the "small break" after Saturday? Saturday could be awkward. OR it might be the best thing for both of you to spend the day together having fun, breaking up that lump that might be in her throat..