[bigmat540]

Hello, need some advice please.

I am 19 years old and I am seeing this girl I know for about 2 years. We have started dating and getting to know each other is improving this has been going on 4 months now and know our goals what we want in life. We both have agreed to travel together next year and we are at the end of study at college.

Right the problem is, she knows how I feel about her and she has admitted to me she likes me too after we had a passionate kiss. Although we have had sex and there was no regrets from both of us. We text all the time but at the same time give each other space when needed.

She had a bad 3 year relationship with some guy I know and he was so mean and lazy. She had to run around for him and he did absolutely nothing for her. I have done more things for her than him, for example we have had a romantic night (which she never had), take her to a nice pub, went for a meal and just been there as a friend too. She has loved every moment of this as she has said so. We went to the pub yesterday in an quiet village where a nice beer garden I know, after the passionate kiss we had again, she said “I do want to let you know I do like you” in my return I said “I like you too” she was like “I already know:)”

She wants to stay like this for now, on how we are and see how it goes still. Loads of people are telling me do not wait, move on you will just get hurt in the end but the thing is my feelings are stronger each day I see her or days without her and I feel I cannot let go, only if she begs me to let go.
I have a bad experience with girls, I have given women happiness and respect but with this girl (Jodie) it is different. I have never felt this deep before and don’t think I can continue without her. I cannot even date or see other girls because of the feelings I have with Jodie.

Could someone help me with your advice and help me guide me to the right steps. I don’t ask for much from anyone :(

[Homegirl 50]

You have been seeing each other four months. What is the hurry and what is it you are waiting for?

[I wish]

Just keep building what you have together. Keep enjoying your time together and let things flow. You're not in a hurry to get married right?

In every relationship, there's a risk. There's always a chance that a couple can break up, so the risk you take with her is no different than the risk you would take with another woman.

If you feel so strongly about her, then just keep having fun together, treat her well and treat her with respect. But you don't need to force her to rush anything, just keep it going.

[angelroseyoung]

If she's the one, then don't let her go. No matter what, don't let her go.