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    May 26, 2012, 03:29 PM
    What should I do? I'm a guy who loves another guy.
    I am a guy, recently I fell for another guy , same went for him, unknowingly we fell in love with each other, we have had sexual interacts many times and we both seemed to take it all pretty naturally until the time my partner got the girl whom he ever wished to be his girlfriend, and thing between us ended although we were in love but we were not gay's.

    It's been 5 months since we spoke normally, we were best buddies and as of today we see each other every day as we are in the same friends group, but after us parting from each other whenever we meet or see each other let that be with other friends or just us 2 we act as 2 strange people who have never met in their whole life time

    Odd thing about our relation was that even though we were in love we were in an eternal pursuit of girls as every boy is
    We were caring halves of each other back then, if I didn't text him for 5 minutes he might call me up ask why aren't I texting. And now if I text him he gets furious
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    May 26, 2012, 04:49 PM
    Gay, bi, straight, whatever, doesn't matter, this was friends with benefits. Either do the friends without the benefits, or ask him what's the real deal in this down low secret lover thing.

    Could you just be friends and he has a female taking all his time, or maybe he want some more benefits on the side I don't know, so ask him.
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    May 27, 2012, 05:09 AM
    He doesnot wish to talk about it
    Thanks man for bothering to reply me I appriciate it

    Sometimes he does things purposely to make me feel jeleous
    As I have started avoinding him now, which he understood so now he purpose makes me feel jeleous , shows me that without me he is happy
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    May 27, 2012, 05:21 AM
    Hang in there guy, because eventually YOU will be happy without him, and he will be a bit jealous. The healing process is not easy.
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    May 27, 2012, 06:07 AM
    What do u think can we be together like we were ones
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    May 27, 2012, 06:32 AM
    You never know but I sure wouldn't hold my breath waiting. I always hope for the best, but plan for the worst, and try to enjoy the in between. Just in case.
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    May 27, 2012, 07:34 AM
    Thanks man

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