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    May 19, 2012, 08:55 AM
    She told me she has a boyfriend so...
    All right, So there's this women at work, and well I've thought she was pretty attractive since way back when. But it's only recently that I've really had the chance to talk to her and stuff and well... I really started liking her. Started talking to her even more, like as in everyone within the workplace started noticing I was paying her so much attention, helping her with her work... all that sort of stuff.

    I was waiting for her to drop the boyfriend bomb in conversation, cause through other folks I knew, she knew that I liked her. So, you know, I figured if she wasn't feeling like there was anything there she'd shoe me off as such... never really came. By this time coworkers were getting a little teasing in, bothering us a little, maybe more then a little but anyway... I figured I was clear since She never mentioned a boyfriend or nothing. I bought her something simple, her favorite drink... she told me I was sweet , and thanked me of course.

    But... when I outright told her I liked her and stuff, eh well, she said she had one. Not sure... how to proceed here, If it's true or not, either way how I should act around her now... stuff like that.
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    May 19, 2012, 04:01 PM
    You act like a friend, and co worker, not a guy looking for romance. Just keep it professional for the most part, and not so obvious.
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    May 19, 2012, 06:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    You act like a friend, and co worker, not a guy looking for romance. Just keep it professional for the most part, and not so obvious.
    So... give up on her, more or less?
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    May 19, 2012, 06:27 PM
    That's right, because you probably never had a chance at romance any way.

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